A Transformed Life
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Alright, let’s get started. We are in week 5 of this sermon series that we have called Built Different, and it’s because we are to build our lives on something different than the way the world builds. We are not building our lives on the things of earth, we’re building our lives on Christ. We’ve been going through Romans chapter 12, 1 through 2, and in this Paul says, I appeal to you, brothers, by the mercies of God, to present your bodies as a living sacrifice, holy and acceptable to God, which is your spiritual worship. Do not be conformed to this world, but— here’s what we’re talking about today— be transformed by the renewal of your mind, that by testing you may discern what is the will of God, what is good and acceptable and perfect.
So Romans 12, Paul tells us to be transformed by the renewal of your mind. This raises a question: is that actually possible? Is it actually possible to see transformation? Is it actually possible to see your life change in meaningful ways? We have to come to grips with our— what we actually think about the answer to that question.
So one of the great things about being in a growing and lively church is that we’ve got people coming on all sorts of places in their spiritual walk. It’s awesome. Some of y’all might be here this morning, you’re like, “I’m not a Christian.” And rock on, let’s go. Like, you don’t have to pretend to be a Christian to come here. Be honest.
Be like, “That’s not me yet. I’m here because I’m curious. I got some things that, you know, or I like the people or whatever.” Just be honest about why you’re here. Like, “I’m not a Christian.” Awesome. Come as you are, baby.
That’s what we’re talking about. There might be some of y’all that are here and you’re new to your faith. You know, you’ve recently made a decision to accept Christ, to accept his forgiveness, and you’re starting your spiritual journey, and you’re looking at your life and you see things, you’re like, I really want this to change in my life. I really want to see growth in this area. I’m tired of this part of my life weighing me down, or whatever it is.
And you’re coming with hope. You’re like, I hope that God will transform me. I got to have it. And then some of you all, you’ve been a Christian for a long time. And if you’re honest with yourself, there are some places in your life that you look back on the time when you came to Christ and you were like, man, I need some things to change, I need that to change in my life.
And you’re looking at your life 10, 20, 30, 40 years past that point and you’re still waiting for that to change. And you’ve maybe given up hope that it could ever change. You’re like, this is just not I’m just going to deal with this. I’m just going to have to deal with this. This sin pattern, this, you know, brokenness in my life, it’s just never going to change, apparently.
Well, we’re here to talk about how to be transformed today. We have hope. What do we say? Come as you are. What?
And be forever changed by the love of Jesus. We believe that that transformation can happen, or we wouldn’t be here. So John Mark Comer, in his Practicing the Way course, he says the problem isn’t that people don’t want to become like Jesus or that people aren’t trying to become like Jesus, it’s that we don’t know how. That might be true for some of us today. We want it, we’re trying, we just don’t know how.
Well, today we’re going to talk about that. We’re going to talk about how to live out the transformed life that Christ has given us. In Colossians chapter 3, that’s where we’re going to be today, the Apostle Paul taught this, this church of the Colossians that he had planted. He taught them that because they had died and they were raised with Christ, they were to live out the transformed life that Christ had given them. Because Christ gave us his life, our lives can be transformed to be like his.
This is what we’re going to learn about today. So now we’ve got to ask the question, how? How does this actually happen over time? The text is going to give us 3 ways to live out this transformed life. Let’s dig into Colossians chapter 3, verses 1 through 11.
If then you have been raised with Christ, seek the things that are above, where Christ is seated at the right hand of God. Set your minds on things that are above, not on things that are on earth. For you have died, Your life is hidden with Christ in God. When Christ who is your life appears, then you also will appear with him in glory. Put to death, therefore, what is earthly in you: sexual immorality, impurity, passion, evil desire, and covetousness, which is idolatry.
On account of these the wrath of God is coming. In these you too once walked, when you were living in them. But now you must put them all away. Anger, wrath, malice, slander, and obscene talk from your mouth. Do not lie to one another, seeing that you have put off the old self with its practices and put on the new self, which is being renewed in knowledge after the image of its Creator.
Here there is not Greek and Jew, circumcised and uncircumcised, barbarian, Scythian, slave, free, but Christ is all, and in all. It’s God’s word, amen? Amen. So let’s dig in. How do we live out this transformed life that Christ has given us?
First, set your mind on things above. Now Paul begins this section. I don’t know how you were kind of receiving this as I was reading the words, but when I look at this and I read this, I go, “Paul, you’re out of your mind right now.” He says two things that don’t seem to square with reality. And so you either say, “Paul, you have no idea what you’re talking about,” or, “This doesn’t apply to me,” because he starts with an “if.” If then you have been raised with Christ, and I’m like, Well, that has not happened yet. Right?
He lays out this, like, there’s the earth and the things above, you know, the heavens where God is seated. Jesus is seated at the right hand of God up there. And then we got the earth that’s down here. And he’s like, well, if you’ve been raised from earth to heaven, then blah, blah, blah, blah. And you’re like, well, that’s not me.
Right? Anybody else? Everybody else is still here, I’m pretty sure. So we have to wrap our minds around the fact that, what is he talking about? ‘Cause that doesn’t seem to square with my perception of reality.
And then he says, “For you have died.” Well, that doesn’t seem to have happened yet either for me or hopefully anybody in the audience, right? I know we got some time here, but hopefully that’s gonna be true for all of us by the time we’re done here. We have not died. Paul, what are you talking about? What— what— if, if you have been raised with Christ, if you have died— it kind of reminds me of that scene from Monty Python and the Holy Grail, right, where they’re like, bring out your dead, and the guy’s like, but I’m not dead yet, I’m feeling better, I think I’ll go for a walk.
You know, it’s like, Paul, I’m not dead yet. What— let’s— what’s going on? What’s happening here? Uh, he says that if these two things— so like, like, let’s first just kind of say that maybe we don’t understand what Paul is saying. Rather than just dismissing him out of hand and saying, “Well, Paul, this is not true,” let’s just, like, for a moment, like, intellectually say, “Okay, Paul knows what he’s talking about.
What is he getting at? What is he trying to say to us then?” He says, if these two things are true, then what are we to do? He says, “Seek the things above. Set your minds on things that are above.” That’s what he says. So if you’ve been raised with Christ, you died, you’ve been raised with Christ, and now you’re with Christ where he is seated above, then set your mind and seek the things that are above.
This reminds me of Jesus’ conversation with Nicodemus because Jesus said something that Nicodemus was like, “What?” Because he says, “Hey, how do we do this whole kingdom thing?” Nicodemus asked Jesus. He said, well, it’s pretty easy. Just, you know, be born from above. Now, we typically say born again. You might have heard that.
I’m a born-again Christian. What Jesus said was actually, you must be born from above. He actually used the same word that Paul is using here, set your mind on things above. Jesus said, you must be born from above. And Nicodemus went, huh?
Uh, uh, we don’t do the whole birth thing twice, so I’m not sure what you’re getting at, Jesus. Totally, you know, blew his mind. Like, it’s okay to sit here and, and look at this and go, this is not making sense with me. It’s okay to say that. What is, what is behind here?
What is Paul trying to say here? Um, he says, seek, set your mind on things above. Jesus said something similar to this in Matthew chapter 6, in the Sermon on the Mount. He said, don’t worry about these things. What things?
Well, what we will eat, what we will drink, what we will wear. These things dominate the thoughts of unbelievers, but your heavenly Father already knows all your needs. Seek the kingdom of God above all else and live righteous— live righteously, and he will give you everything you need. So there are things that are, you know, things that are of the earth and there are things that are above. And Jesus is saying, don’t worry so much about the things that are on the earth.
Like, don’t let those dominate your thoughts. Seek, seek the kingdom, seek the kingdom of God, seek the things that are above. He’s saying the same thing that Paul is saying. You know, where does your mind drift when, when you have no external stimulation, when you’re sitting in silence and your mind is, is, is just free to go wherever it wants to go? And if we’re honest with ourselves, in today’s world, most of us are sitting here saying, “I don’t know because that never happens.” If we’re really honest, we don’t let our minds be at rest with no external stimulation.
There’s always something popping in our brains from the outside, right? Well, if you were to just turn everything off and let’s just sit in silence for a second and say, “Okay, what is dominating your thoughts?” in the words of Jesus here. What, what just pops into your head? That’s where— that’s what you’ve set your minds to. Uh, Matthew 16, he’s, uh, Jesus is, is talking to his disciples, talking about what’s getting ready to come.
From that time, Jesus began to show his disciples that he must go to Jerusalem and suffer many things from the elders and the chief priests and the scribes, and be killed, and on the third day be raised. And Peter took him aside and began to rebuke him, saying, ‘Far be it from you, Lord! This shall never happen to you. Don’t worry. You’re in good hands.
Don’t worry. We’ve got this under control, Jesus. This is not going to happen.’ And Jesus turns and says to Peter, ‘Get behind me, Satan! You are a hindrance to me. For you are—’ check this out— ‘For you are not setting your mind on the things of God.’ That’s the exact same phrase Paul is using.
Set your mind on things above. Jesus says, ‘Get behind me, Satan,’ to Peter. Why? Because you are— you’ve not done that. You have not set your mind on things of God, but on the things of man.
So the first step of transformation is to understand that there’s an earthly reality, but there’s also a heavenly reality, a reality of above, a spiritual reality.
Y’all, just let’s listen for a second.
You hearing that? I don’t know.
So did you know that every radio station that is on the FM dial and on the AM dial is playing right now in this room? Every radio station, like, if you got in your car and turned the radio on, all those radio stations are playing right now in this room. They’re all, like, yelling at you. If you could hear them all, you’d be because there’d just be some noise, right? I’m telling you the truth right now.
You don’t perceive it because you don’t have the hardware in your ears. Your ears don’t tune to those frequencies. You don’t have the hardware, but it doesn’t mean it’s not true. This is— you’re not perceiving it. And also, all those little cell phones you got— I don’t know if there’s anybody in the back watching TikTok or something like that, but your cell phones have radios in them as well.
That talk to cell towers, that talk to Wi-Fi, and those radios, it’s the same thing, they’re yelling, they’re screaming all the time. Guess what? Every cell phone that’s within like a mile radius of here, it’s sending radio waves into here as well. So every radio station on the FM dial and the AM dial, plus every cell phone in about a mile radius is all screaming at us right now. But you are not hearing anything of it, right?
Because your ears don’t have the hardware. If you had the hardware, you could tune to one of those frequencies and then understand what’s being said, or the music, or whatever. And it’s kind of like that in the spiritual life. There is the earthly dimension that we have the hardware for, we’re built in. We can see, we can touch, we can taste, we can feel.
And so we can just say, well, this must be all there is. This is the only thing that there is, what we see on earth, the things that dominate our thoughts. And what Jesus is saying, what Paul is saying, is that there’s a heavenly dimension that’s just as real as everything we see here. When you are born from above, you get new hardware. Now you have the ability to tune to God’s frequencies.
You didn’t have it before, now you do. And it just leaves the choice: are we going to tune our hearts to God’s frequencies, or are we just going to ignore that and still only pay attention to what’s going on on the earth? Amen. So this is what he’s saying: if you want to be transformed, start tuning to heaven’s frequencies, not just the earth’s. When you wake up in the morning, take some time and be still and silent and say, okay God, right now I’m tuning to you.
I’m going to tune to your frequencies this morning. I want to be on your plan. I want to be in your program today. See, the problem is that a lot of times the best we can hope for as Christians is we say, well, I got some things I want to accomplish. I got some things I want to do.
I got my program. And about the best we’re looking for as far as transformation is that God will come and sprinkle some Jesus magic over those things and help us to accomplish those things. And that’s why we’re here. And Paul is starting off saying, whoa, whoa, whoa, time out. There’s more than what’s going on right here.
There’s a bigger mission. There’s something more important, more real than what we can see. It’s the heavenly dimension, and you’ve got to tune to it. You’ve got to tune the frequencies of your heart to be able to hear what’s going on. But he’s given you the hardware to do it.
You just got to do it. The Lord’s Prayer. Spend more time on the first part of the Lord’s Prayer saying, OK, In heaven, in that heavenly above dimension, Jesus’ name is holy. The Father’s name is holy. And his kingdom has come and his will is done.
And spend more time on that part of the Lord’s Prayer, saying, God, I want to be part of you coming to earth. Just as it is in heaven, just as it is in the heavenly frequencies, let’s bring that down. Come on, let’s go. I’ll be part of your program, your plan, not mine. And then get to my daily bread, my sins, where God’s leading me.
But start with the heavenly frequencies first. Because if we don’t have God’s perspective, if we’re just looking at things from a human perspective and the things of earth are dominating our thoughts, that doesn’t lead to transformation. It doesn’t lead to a renewal of the mind because our mind is only set on the things of the earth, the things of man. Okay, we gotta move. That’s the first step.
The first step of transformation is to set your mind on things above. The second is to put the old self to death.
Alright, so Paul says this kind of weird thing. He’s like, y’all are dead and I’m going to need you to die. It’s like, Paul, you’re not making sense right now, right? He says, since you have died, put these things to death. This is a strange thing to do, but see, here’s the thing.
We like to think of Christianity and the Christian walk as just, you know, adding on, like I said, adding on some Jesus to our life. And Paul is saying that the Christian life is not about adding on some new habits and just kind of tweaking some things and some little self-improvement here and there. It’s about putting some things to death. That’s right. Putting some things to death.
Jesus says something kind of similar, kind of striking in the Sermon on the Mount. He says, “If your right eye causes you to sin, tear it out and throw it and many of them walked away. Can you imagine the first hearers of that? The people that actually heard him say that going, uh, what am I signing up for here, Jesus? It’s probably the same people when he said, if you want to be my disciple, I’m going to need you to eat my flesh and drink my blood.
And people went— and it literally says, and many of them walked away. Many of them went. That doesn’t sound like a good idea. I think I’m out.
Paul gives a couple lists of things here. He’s in chapter 3, verse 6: Sexual immorality, impurity, passion, evil desire, covetousness, which is idolatry. Verse 8: Anger, wrath, malice, slander, obscene talk from your mouth. And do not lie to one another. He gives these lists, and if you kind of take some time and think about these and kind of pore over them, you see that there’s just this mixture of what’s going on inside, like desires and thoughts and attitudes, all the way to action that affect your fellow man.
It’s all there. And he’s saying, stop messing around with this stuff and put it to death.
Whew. Okay. That’s pretty tough. Now, let me pause here and say, what Paul is not saying is, if you want to be made right with God, you have to put these things to death.
That’s not what he’s saying. He’s saying you have been made right with God. You have died and you’ve been raised with him. Therefore, you get to put these things to death. Very big difference.
You’re not working to earn your childhood of God. Because you are a child of God, you now have a new master. Before, you didn’t have the ability to not be ruled by sin. Now you do. You have the ability to not be ruled by sin.
Look at Romans chapter 6. We know that our old self was crucified with him in order that the body of sin might be brought to nothing, so that we would no longer be enslaved to sin. For one who has died has been set free from sin. That’s you and I. If you’ve said yes to Jesus, you’re set free from sin.
And then what? Let not sin therefore reign in your mortal body to make you obey its passions. You have a new master. You get to say no. You get to put that voice to death.
You get to put those desires to death. You get to put those actions to death.
I came to Christ when I was 11 in the 5th grade in Virginia Beach. That’s where we were living at the time.
And, you know, we had a baptism last week and there were some, you know, some kids. And every time we have baptisms, there’s kids that are baptized. And like, I was 11 and I’m looking at these kids and I’m going, these kids are not coming out of like, they’re not naive. You know, when a kid who’s, you know, 9, 10, 11— Gail talked about her being baptized at 12— there’s real faith there. I remember very vividly the sense at 11 years old that I wanted to be right with God, and I was trying, and I was failing, and I was feeling just beat up and guilty about the fact that I was not— the more and more I tried, it’s like the worse and worse I was performing, and I was feeling guilty about it.
And there was a new church plant in my neighborhood, and we decided to go there. We showed up on the first day they were open, and it was at that church we started hearing the gospel for the first time, the gospel of grace, the gospel of you don’t have to make yourself right with God. Christ has done that work. You receive his righteousness, and then you begin to live things out. So we heard that for the first time, and I received Jesus.
I received his righteousness. And there were two particular areas in my life that, as an 11-year-old, that were making me feel guilty, that I was really hoping for transformation. One area was my mouth, and the other area was anger. So as a 5th grader, I had a terrible, terrible mouth. Whatever word you can think of, I was saying it.
I was pretty good, not 100%, but I was pretty good at keeping that from my parents and keeping it out of my house. I got stories for when I did not, but most of the time I was pretty good at that. But, you know, this is back in the days when you just had the run of the neighborhood, kids had the run of the neighborhood, and with my friends out in the neighborhood and my friends at school, I just had a terrible, terrible mouth. And at some point I began to feel like, this is not right, I want to stop this, but I couldn’t. And then the other area was anger.
I was a very, very angry child. I had rage problems. Just ask my sister. She’s got stories. And when I came to Jesus, those were the two kind of presenting problems, if you will, that were making me feel guilty.
And you know what? My mouth, it wasn’t overnight, but it was kind of close to it where it just, it just changed. And I had begun to have freedom from my potty mouth. And The anger, it has taken longer and is taking longer for that to change. And I think that’s true for a lot of people.
Like, when you come to Jesus, the stuff on the outside, the stuff that other people can see, tends to be the things that get cleaned up quicker. The things that are on the inside that nobody else sees but you and God are the ones that take longer. And I am not at 100% on the anger thing. Just ask my family. But I will, with humility and sober-minded evaluation, say that I’ve seen transformation in that.
I really have. It’s taken me 37 years for the progress that I’ve had, and there’s more progress to be had. But if I look back and say, okay, well, what has led to that transformation? And I think it’s about putting things to death inside me. Putting my need to control other people, my need to have like a standard of perfection that if I’m honest with myself is all about how other people look at me, not necessarily me being perfect, but other people’s viewpoint of me, and so then when that doesn’t match up, then anger comes.
Does anybody else? Am I just— is it just me? Okay. Putting my need to control outcomes to death. Those are all things that are— those are heart issues, and I’ve had to put them to death over and over and over again.
But that has led to slow transformation. And I think that’s what Paul’s getting at here is that, look, you’ve got to stop playing with sin and excusing it and rationalizing it.
Mortifying sin— I skipped over this quote, but it’s a good one, so I’ve got to go back and get it. John Owen, it’s from the 1600s. He wrote this book called The Mortification of Sin. It’s a fun read, but he says, “Be killing sin or it will be killing you.” So to mortify sin, to put sin to death, means we got to stop playing with it. It takes more than good intentions, it takes concrete action.
So if you want to be transformed, it means beginning to look inside your heart at the motivations and desires and things that are not according to God’s best for you and put those things to death. So your pride, your ambition, your greed, your drive for worldly success, it’s time to stop rationalizing that and calling it something else. You might say, “Well, it’s just ambition,” or, “I’m just, you know, I just want to be the best at what I’m doing,” or, “I’m just trying to provide for my family.” And there’s a lot of goodness in there, but if you’re really honest with yourself and let God really look at your heart, There’s more there. There’s things that need to be put to death there. And stop playing with it.
Stop rationalizing it. Stop feeding it. Put it to death. Your lust, your consumption of media that is not holy and pleasing to God, you might be rationalizing that and saying, “Well, you know, it’s just what everybody does these days. You know, it’s just normal.” It’s just all around, and you can’t get away from it.
Oh, what am I to do? Oh, you know, it’s not hurting anybody, you know, it’s just, just in my mind. It doesn’t hurt anybody.
Well, God sees it, and God knows it’s not what’s best for you. And he knows that those things that are going on in your heart are going to yield a fruit of unrighteousness, and he wants you to kill it. He wants you to stop playing with it. He wants you to stop rationalizing it. He says put it to death.
Put it to death. Stop feeding and nursing back to health something Christ died for. Just kill it. Your angriness, your bitterness, your contempt for other people, you’re rationalizing that and saying, well, you know, I was It’s the family system I was born in. I was wounded as a child and it’s just made me this way.
Or other people just this, other people just that. Well, if bitterness has taken root, you need to forgive. You need to ask God to change your perspective, to get that heavenly perspective on things, and stop rationalizing your anger and your bitterness and your wrath and your contemptuousness towards other people and put it to death.
That’s the strong message of Jesus and Paul this morning to all of us. Is you want to be forever changed by the love of Jesus? The love of Jesus has made you a new person and has given you the option now to put some things to death that are not good for you. And he wants what’s best for you. Will you partner with him and put some things to death?
The third way that we are transformed is to put on the new self. So we’re looking at things from above, from a heavenly perspective. We’re getting on his frequency. We’re seeing, seeing things as God sees things, and we start seeing things that need to be put to death. So we put them to death.
Then what do we do? We put on the new self, the new life. He doesn’t just empty us of sin when he saves us. That’s mercy. God says, I’m not going to hold you accountable for your sin anymore.
I’m not— you deserve death, but I’m going to give you my life. That’s great. He also just piles grace on top of it too and gives you new life and gives you a new self. He doesn’t just put you back to neutral. He wants something wonderful for you, and that’s his very life.
It says put on the new self. It’s like clothing, and it doesn’t imply a choice. When you wake up in the morning, you got a choice. What clothes are you going to put on? The nasty, sweaty, disgusting ones that you took off yesterday?
Or you can put on your new self. That’s the analogy that Paul’s working with here. Then notice verse 11, it says here in this renewed life, There is not Greek or Jew, circumcised or uncircumcised, barbarian, Scythian, slave, free, but Christ is all and in all. So here’s what Paul’s working on. You should be thinking, okay, created in the— this renewed image, the image of your Creator.
We’re supposed to be thinking about Genesis 1 and 2 here, that God created mankind in his own image and called it very good. He had a plan for mankind that was very, very good. Mankind rebelled, the first mankind, the first Adam, and rebelled. And so now the second Adam has come, the second mankind, Jesus has come. And what has he given us the ability to do?
To go back and reclaim what was, what was missing, to go back and reclaim that, that image of God that, that he had planned all along. That’s what, that’s what Paul’s saying. And in this beautiful— it’s, it’s really part of what Paul is getting at in this whole book of Colossians and in a lot of his letters. He’s trying to figure out how do we take people that that from an earthly perspective have no business being together, the Greek and the Jew, the circumcised, the uncircumcised, the barbarian, the Scythian, the slave, the free, and help them understand that, you know what, we are all one new humanity with God as our Father. And we’re on mission together to say all of us are made in the image of God and we’re going to reclaim that.
We’re going to partner with God for his kingdom to come, his will to be done. And for us all to be his perfect spotless bride, the church, together. That’s what he’s after. It’s pretty cool. Look at 2 Corinthians 3:18.
And we all, who with unveiled faces contemplate the Lord’s glory— like we see it perfectly from his perspective— we’re being transformed into his image with ever-increasing glory. So it’s a process, but that’s where we’re headed, transformed into his image. Romans 8:29 says, for God knew his people in advance, and he chose them to be come like his son, so that his son would be the firstborn among many brothers and sisters. Here’s a saying from Pastor Gary that’s worthy of repeating and remembering. You’ve probably heard him say this.
If you’re wondering, what is God up to in my life? Why am I going through this trial? What is God wanting to accomplish in my life? I’m bored, or I don’t see what I’m supposed to do next, or what am I— where am I supposed to aim? You know, young people, where am I supposed to aim my life?
I don’t get it. I don’t know where I’m supposed to go. What’s God up to in your life? He’s making you like Jesus. That’s his will for your life.
And if you begin to partner with him and say, “God, I want to be smack in the middle of your will. Make me like Jesus,” he will give you everything you ask for. That’s his promise. I’ll get— that right there, that’s a request I will honor every single time. I’m going to make you like Jesus.
That’s what he’s up to. It’s been a while for me since I’ve gone, like, to a gym, like an inside gym. Just, I much prefer to work out outside. You know, not treadmill, open roads. You know, not musty, smelly gym equipment.
Like, give me some outdoors, right? But I have before gone to a gym, and you know, you’re doing your thing. You’re on this machine, you’re on that machine, you’re going from one to the other, you take a breath, take some water, you go hit the next thing, you’re sweaty, and you’re huffing and puffing, and you’re doing your thing, right? And I remember, you try not to judge, but you notice sometimes, right? I noticed this, you know, there’s like, it’s a type of a guy at the gym.
Maybe you’ve seen this person before. They seem to do more talking than working out, right? They’re drinking some sort of juice. You’re like, I don’t think that’s healthy, you know, and you’re doing more talking than you’re doing working out. And every once in a while they’ll get on something and do something, and then they’re huffing and puffing, they just sit down.
And they go find somebody else to talk to, and you’re like, why are we here? You know, like, you’re not seeing— you know, month after month goes on, you’re not really seeing any change, and you’re like, I think I know why. Because you’re doing more talking than you’re doing working out, right? When it comes to our physical, like, you know, getting in shape, we have a theory of change. Like, we have an understanding.
It’s pretty well understood. Theory of change when it comes to getting in shape. Like, we know what to do. Might not want to do it, but we know what to do. Yeah, you got to get active.
You got to, you got to do some things to get active, get that heart rate going, get your muscles working. You got to do some things. And then you gotta, you gotta, in between the exercises, you got to do some other things like, you know, get your rest, watch what you’re eating, and things like that, right? This is not rocket science, right? We know what, we know what the theory of change is for for physical activity and getting in shape.
But we sometimes, uh, we apply a different theory of change when it comes to spiritual life, our spiritual walk, to that transformation that we’re after. We look at things, we’re like, “Man, I really want this to change. I want that to change. I want to grow in this area. I want this to change.” And then the theory of change we’re operating under is, “Well, if I come to the gym, if I come to the church, you know, every every other week or so and spend an hour listening to somebody and might do more talking than listening, and then don’t really do much during the week.
I’ll tell you what, I’ll tack on another 2 hours to that 1 hour and I’ll go to small group, and so— and I’ll come every week. So now I got 3 hours of my week I’m going to do some things, but the other 165 hours I’m not— I’m not participating with God and yielding to God in his transformation, and we expect to change.
Like, we have to get on God’s theory of change here, which says there’s things that need to be put to death, and then there’s a new self that you need to put on actively. It doesn’t happen on accident.
Christlikeness is not gonna happen on accident. There might be some behaviors that you need to put on during the week, some practices that you need to put on around setting your mind on the things of God, on praying. Again, what I’m getting ready to tell you, everyone’s like, “Yep, that’s exactly right.” But how hard is it to put into practice? You say, “I don’t have time to read and pray.” Well, what’s the solution to that? Do it first thing in the morning.
Go to bed a little bit earlier at night and wake up a little bit earlier in the morning. And what I have just said is the least controversial statement ever. Everyone knows it’s true, but it’s the hardest thing to do, right? So it’s like, these are— there are practices that you, you just must do in order to yield with God. You can’t expect to just sit and have this transformation happen to you.
You must put off and put on, in the words of Colossians 3. You must yield to him, and part of getting on his wavelength is reading his word and understanding what it is to be in the kingdom of God. That’s what the word is all about. To pray and to start invoking his will and his kingdom and his name in your life, to start seeing how he’s working around you and to get on mission with him, to start Identifying those things inside of you that really, really need to change and then start saying, “Okay, well God, how could I actually partner with you on this?” I’m doing something I don’t want to do. One of the ways that you can partner with God to stop doing something that you don’t want to do is to stop doing something you do want to do.
It’s kind of counterproductive or counterintuitive, but if you want to stop doing something you don’t want to do, A very useful practice is to fast, to fast from food. And it begins to build a muscle in you, a spiritual muscle that God is somehow mysteriously working in our hearts, going, okay, you know what, God is everything I need. I don’t need these things in order to make me satisfied because the word of God is the bread of life, right? And so you can do things that will help yield to God’s work in your life. And those are the historical practices, the things that we all know are the things that we need we need to engage in to partner with God for his work in our lives to make us more like Jesus.
A challenge I have for you, and I’m just putting it out here as an idea, is this week when you go to your small groups and you’re in conversation talking about what you learned and learn, you know, we talk about how to apply things to our lives, the Holy Spirit has probably brought something to your mind as, as we’ve been talking, as we’ve been studying this as the area that you really, really want to see transformation in.
Would you be willing this week during small group to confess that to your small group peeps and tell them, “This is the area that I want to see change. I want to grow in Christ-likeness in this area, and I don’t care what it takes. I’m ready to do it.” Whether it takes a week, a month, a year, or 10 years, I want to see God move in this area of my life. Would you be willing to say that to your small group? Because that’s what our small groups are, is that we’re just people locking arms going, we just want to be more like Jesus together.
And it might take confession to one another, as the book of James says, to start saying, ah, that’s the exact same area I’m looking for transformation in. I wonder if we could talk about that together and learn from each other and grow and pray for each other. This is a way that we could yield to God’s work in our life, is just to become honest about where we want to see transformation. So if you are in Christ, if you have died, if you are raised with Christ into the heavenly places, that’s where your life is. Your life is hidden with Christ and your life is Christ.
Would you begin to tune the tuner of your heart to the things of God more than the things of the earth? Start seeing his perspective on what’s going on in your world and how he wants to move? Would you begin to see those places in your life that really just need to be put to death? Stop playing with them. Stop messing around with them.
Just put them to death. And then begin to put on the new life. The image of God that he has for you, that he’s ready to transform you into his image if you will walk in those new, those new ways. Put on that new clothing, put on that new self, walk into the life that he has for you. This is what it takes to be transformed.
This is what it takes to be transformed by the renewal of your mind. This is what God has for us. He’s making us like Jesus. Let’s pray.
Lord, thank you for your word, even when it’s hard to hear.
Hard sometimes because we don’t understand it. Hard sometimes because we understand it exactly, and we know that to walk in obedience to it is going to be putting some things to death. Help us, Lord.
We want what’s best for us because we know that you’ve got it. You’ve got the life that we really want. Help us to walk in that life. Help us to, to say no to the, the master of sin and to say yes to you.
I pray for anyone here today who you’ve not made him the Lord of your life, you’ve not given your life to him, and you’re tired of being ruled by sin.
I pray this morning that you would confess, you would confess Jesus as Lord. You would say, Lord, you’ve got what I need, and I can’t do it myself anymore, and I’m done trying. Give me your righteousness. Give me your life. My old life is dead to me now.
You’re Lord of my life. You are my righteousness. You are everything I need to be right with you, and I’m going to accept it, and I’m going to receive it, and I’m going to now live in it.
If that’s you, if you said that, you are on the path of walking in your new life. You have new hardware now. You have a heart that can tune to God’s frequencies and to his what he’s up to.
I pray for all of us that we would— Lord, help us. Help us to be more about your kingdom and your activities than we are about ours. Help us to set our minds on the things above and not the things of the earth. In your name we pray, amen.
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Alright. Good morning, church. Thank you for being here. Fourth of July weekend. We are working with a skeleton crew today.
And we are making the best of it. We’re so thankful for you. I hope that you were able to move into worship already with us. It’s thinner than normal. We’re gonna live, though.
You know what? We’re gonna be fine. I’ve preached to a lot less. Believe it or not. And so I’m totally good with it.
I’m thankful you’re here. And I’m thankful for the opportunity to be in a country where we would celebrate what we’re celebrating. 250 years as a nation. So many churches have been planted worldwide. So many missionaries sent because of what God has done in our country.
I’m very proud to be an American. I served in our military for 10 years. I’m very thankful for that time. And I’m so, so happy you’re here today. And I’ve even wore, in a way, some red, white, and blue for you.
In a way. But some of you have done the same. I appreciate you. But We’re going to continue this morning in this series we’ve called Built Different. And we’re very thankful for what God’s doing at our church.
I want to begin by saying, hey, we’re only about a week out from one of the biggest, if not the biggest events we do as a church every year. And we do it all for the children. Your kids, kids in the neighborhood, kids in our community. Last year we had 6 children come to Christ during our Kids Fest event. This year I’m expecting that God will do the same, if not more.
He uses this time where we just have fun. We do these dramas that tell Bible stories. We worship with the children. We teach them various stories from scripture that point to Christ Jesus. And God moves.
He moves in miraculous ways. In ways only he can. And we get to be a part of that. That’s what’s so— such a privilege is that we get to enjoy what God is doing. Not only in our church but in the lives of our kids.
And so I just want to put that out there to you once more. You’re not too late. If you’ve got children and haven’t registered them, do so as soon as you can. And if you’ve not signed up to volunteer in any way yet, this is such an awesome opportunity to see what God’s going to do. And so I pray you will consider doing that.
But certainly, if nothing else, be praying for us. We’ve got a bunch of decorating to do. Next Sunday, if you show up, and I pray you will, this room, all these rooms are going to look real different. We’re going to be underwater. For the next 2 weeks.
We’re taking our children into the deep. And so it’s going to look like an aquarium in our building for the next 2 Sundays. So you’re going to want to come and see that. But certainly invite people and be praying for us. We already have somewhere around 60.
I haven’t looked this in a couple days. But last year we had 43. We already have 60, I think roughly, pre-registered. So we’re about to blow it up. And so be praying for us in that.
So let’s dig in now. We’re going to be in the book of Colossians chapter 3 together. And we’ve been digging into this idea of what it looks like to be built different. This is a phrase that people use to talk about someone or something that is exceptional. That stands out.
That’s cut different. Cut from a different mold. And that’s where we’re going to be for the next 2 weeks. We’re finishing this series up. And I want to remind you.
We pulled all of this from these main— these 6 main concepts of Romans chapter 12. One of my favorite scriptures where Paul writes to the Roman church in chapter 12. He says, “I appeal to you, brothers, therefore brothers, by the mercies of God to present your bodies.” That was one of our sermons. “As a living sacrifice.” That was another. “Holy and acceptable, which is your spiritual worship.” And last week we talked about, “Do not be conformed to this world.” And now this week, But be transformed by the renewal of your mind, that by testing you may discern what is the will of God, what is good and acceptable and perfect.
So this week we’re talking about transformation. What does it mean to be a transformed, to have a transformed life that would be transformed by the renewal of our mind? I know somebody in the audience is ready to say, Autobots roll out. You know, that’s maybe what you picture. That’s what I do.
I grew up with that stuff. So transformer, that sounds great. Well, it is great. It’s even better in the scripture. But here’s the thing.
Here’s the thing I’ve observed in my own life. And I bet you’ve observed in yours. Perhaps you’ve come in. There’s various heart conditions of people coming in right now. Various ways that you’re struggling.
Maybe you’re up. Maybe you’re down. Maybe you’re still trying to walk this Christianity thing out in your life. But for so many of us, I would argue maybe all of us, we fail at times to experience transformation. I know that I do.
So don’t feel discouraged by that. That’s not even going to be the point of the message. You’re hopefully going to walk away feeling very encouraged that God is at work in your life and has started something that he intends to finish. And so here he says, you will be transformed by the renewal. What happens to us?
What causes us to not always experience experience transformation kind of life. We believe the gospel, so many of us. We know that Christ has saved us. We know he’s the way. But here’s what happens.
We still worry about what the world worries about. It’s so tempting. It’s so easy to fall back into that. We still chase what the world chases. We still lose our tempers over the same stuff we lost it over prior BC.
I always say my BC days, which for me were a long time ago. I came to Christ when I was 6, and so my life has been a lot of figuring out how to walk with Jesus while also believing it, which is its own sort of difficulty. But some of you remember the days before Jesus, the days before you said yes, when you were chasing after all kinds of things and frustrated. What’s confusing is when you feel like you’re still living that way. Don’t worry, you’re not alone.
Often we return to those same frustrations and sins we’ve battled for years. I wonder this. Here’s what I want to argue today. Have you ever in your life been given a fresh start? Look back somewhere in your life.
Maybe you started a new job. Maybe you moved to a new city. Maybe you finally got out of a relationship that had been slowly tearing you down and you moved on from that. Maybe the network of friends you had in high school, You finally moved away and got out of that and you knew at that moment you had a chance to start over. I remember feeling this way when I went to college.
I didn’t hate the way I had been in high school, but I kind of had this class clown kind of reputation. And here I am kind of clowning still. So there was something true in that. But I kind of wanted to move on from this goofball, This is all I am to people and people don’t take me very seriously. I wanted to move on from that.
And so I had determined when I got to college that I would do differently. And I kind of did. I wanted to be the man that I saw in the mirror and not what everybody else saw. But here’s the key problem with a fresh start. And some of you have maybe recently had one.
You’ve moved. You’ve started something new. Here’s what I’ve observed. Changing your location It does not automatically change your life. It doesn’t.
You can move to a new city and bring your same old habits. You can move to a new job and have the same, same struggles, the same sin areas, the same laziness, passivity. Here’s the great news today. Here’s where we’re going to be. Transformation is not a fresh start.
It’s a brand new life. In Jesus Christ, here’s what you’ve been given. You’ve been given something better than a fresh start. You’ve been given a new life. We’re going to key in on a passage today where it says, “Jesus, who is your life.” That’s a wild thing to say.
Jesus Christ, who is your life. Not the hope of your life. Other passages may say that. Here Paul says, “He is.” And you’ve been given new life in Christ Jesus. So here we go.
We’re going to be in Colossians 3. We’re going to see the Apostle Paul teaching first these Colossian believers that because they had died and been raised in Christ Jesus, they could live out a completely new life transformed in the Lord, that Christ had given them this new life. And the text, I believe, will show us very— 3 clear ways to live this out because we can do the same. So let’s dig in. Colossians 3:1-11.
I pray this so encourages and feeds you today. If then If you have been raised with Christ, seek the things that are above where Christ is seated at the right hand of God. Set your minds on things that are above, not on things that are on earth. For you have died. Listen to this, church.
This is really strange but powerful language. Your life is hidden with Christ in God. And here’s the verse. When Christ, who is your life, if Christ appears, then you will also appear with Him in glory. Now here’s the challenge.
Put to death, therefore, what is earthly in you: sexual immorality, impurity, passion, evil desire, and covetousness, which leads— which is, in fact, idolatry. On account of these things I’ve just listed, the wrath of God is coming. In these you too once walked, when you were living in them. But now you must put them all away. Here’s another list: anger, wrath, malice, slander, obscene talk from your mouth.
He separates this. He says, do not lie to one another, seeing that you have put off the old self with its practices and you have put on the new self, which is being renewed in knowledge after the image of its creator. Here, there. There’s not Greek and Jew, circumcised and uncircumcised, barbarian, Scythian, slave, free, but Christ is all and in all. This is God’s word.
Amen.
If you don’t walk away here, walk out of this building today feeling a little uplifted, then I’ve failed. I’m going to do real hard. I’m going to try my best to make you feel encouraged by this good word because Christ is saying you have died and been buried and raised in newness of life. And so now you have a new opportunity. You have a new self.
So put off the old. So let’s dig in. How do we do this? How do we actually live out the transformed life that Christ says we already have? Here’s the first.
And these are going to feel like, Jonathan, you didn’t even try. All right. Because literally these are right here in the text. When the text gives you perfect points, you don’t mess with them. Okay.
And Paul right away, he says, “Set your mind, seek the things above, set your minds on them.” Set your mind on things above. Now I got to unpack this point because that sounds very like theoretical. Like, “Okay, whoop-de-doo, I’m going to think about heaven all the time.” What are we doing here? Don’t worry, we’re going to dig into this together. Paul makes two statements that seem like they almost don’t square with our reality to begin with and we have to deal with those first.
Right away he says, “If you have been raised with Christ, you should be asking as I was asking, wait a minute, I’m alive, I’ve not died, I’ve not resurrected.” None of that’s true. So clearly Paul is talking about something in the spiritual realm. He’s clearly talking about something that although physically has not happened, spiritually has. This is often, we will say this around our church, you’ve probably heard me say this before. This is this idea of the already.
Not yet. So already, if you’ve come to Christ Jesus and said, he has paid for my sin, I walk with him, he is my Savior and Lord, if you’ve done that, then already in a spiritual sense, your inheritance is set. This is what Peter was talking about last week. This is what Paul is talking about here. You are already seated in the heavenly places near Christ.
You have already in a spiritual way been set free permanently and perfectly. But notice Paul doesn’t say, “Hey, so live up there. Just set your minds there.” He goes on to say, “So you got to put some stuff to death.” He is acknowledging that you’re still living in this life. I heard a pastor recently say, digging in on this text, he said, “The idea here is aim at heaven while you’re living on earth. Aim at heaven while you’re living on earth.” That’s pretty powerful.
I think that’s what Paul’s trying to say here. You’ve already been raised. In fact, verse 3 says, “You have already died.” We do this imagery. We did it last Sunday if you were with us. This imagery of a baptism.
What we’re trying to model and illustrate there is that in actuality in Christ Jesus, you have already died to sin. He has already paid for it. It was enough. More than enough. You’re good.
You’re free. Sin has been conquered. So when Paul writes in a moment, and we’re going to dig into it. When he writes put to death, he’s saying this isn’t like some kind of unique work where you’ve got to try real hard. It’s more like I’m going to yield and acknowledge the work that God has already done and is doing in my life.
The idea of transformation here is not, hey, I need God to trans— he needs to do this initially. No, he has already transformed me and is constantly now transforming me. The book of Hebrews says it this way. You have been made holy, those who are being made perfect. So he is sanctifying you.
That’s the part that you and I are going, that’s the part that burns a little bit. That’s the part that’s a little tricky. Because in Christ Jesus, you have been made holy, but he is making you like Jesus. And that requires pruning, some pain at times. Because there’s rough edges.
In fact, if we are like diamonds, if we are Christ’s chosen people, like a diamond, you would have to take a laser and laser off some of the edges. That’s us. There’s some rough edges that need a little bit of work. So he says, begin with, okay, so in actuality, I’m free. I don’t have to live as I once did.
I have died and been raised in Christ Jesus. Okay. What do I do with that? Well, initially what I do with that is I seek the things above and I set my mind on the things above. This word mind here is an interesting word in the Greek.
It’s probably not that important to you, but what was interesting to me, there’s multiple words for mind in the Greek. Here is the word phroneo, which has to do with the gut or the abdomen. It’s this Hebraic kind of idea. They always thought that the passion— we think passion and emotion kind of come from the heart, right? We know it’s not actually true.
I think everybody in the room knows this thing beats and makes blood flow, right? We know what it’s actually doing, but don’t we say, “Hey, heart has to do with our love and our emotion and our passion.” That’s the idea here of mind phroneo. They thought of it coming from your gut. Kind of weird, but that’s the case. In some ways we still kind of use this.
Like we might say, I might say, hey, Josh has a lot of guts. It means he has a lot of courage. He has a lot of boldness. So we’ve kept some aspects of that phrase. So here he’s saying, hey, I want you to set your passion.
Another version says, set your affections on the things which are above. Okay. So if I’ve died and been raised in Christ Jesus, if I’m to live a transformed life, then I need to set my affections, my passions, my heart is set on things above where Christ is seated at the right hand of the Father. Okay, so Jonathan, are you saying— Now I just want you to know, Jonathan, I got work to do. I got kids to feed.
I got kids to parent. I got a husband. I got a wife. I got a boss. You want me to spend my life just thinking up in the clouds?
Is that what you’re saying here? Simply no.
Instead, I think what Paul is arguing and what would be so helpful to us to hear today is this idea that your life is not your own. It’s been transformed. It’s been totally changed. It’s brand new. And Paul says something careful in verse 4.
He says, Christ, who is your life, when he appears, All this is gonna be revealed. But he makes a statement there that I think most of us are really challenged by. Christ is my life. He’s not part of my life.
That alone is a very powerful idea. So I’m not a pastor who happens to be a Christian. I’m not a pharmacist who happens to be a Christian. I’m not a I’m not a person who works for the police department. I’m not a nurse.
I’m not— no, I’m a Christ follower. I am a little Christ follower. And then these other things are supplementary. This might sound kind of tough at first, like before you’re a husband, before you’re a wife, you’re a son or daughter of the King, King Jesus. He says your life is wrapped up in Jesus.
So all of this extracurricular stuff, it’s good stuff, it’s not bad stuff, and most of it, a lot of it God has actually supplied in your life for his purpose and his good and his plan. But we flip it. Most of us. I do it. I struggle to where days I pray, I spend most of my days thinking about how to be more successful in this, how to Sometimes how to be more comfortable in this.
I think about stuff like that. Paul says, “Be thinking about Christ who is your life.” Now what does that look like? That’s a better plan. What are these things that are above? It’s not being so heavenly minded that you’re no earthly good.
I grew up hearing that phrase. There’s some truth to that phrase that all you do is just you’re always on cloud nine and you’re no use on earth. That’s not what Paul Paul saying. He’s saying Christ is your life, so what is Christ about? Here’s some powerful questions I want you to consider today.
No matter what you do for work, no matter what it is you do in relationships as, as parents, as grandparents, no matter what that looks like, the questions that ring in your head constantly should be centered around Christ himself. What is his character? What are his purposes? I want to give you just a couple of questions to think about every single day. What does Christ think?
What does Jesus love? What motivates him? What brings him joy? What is he up to in this life? What does he value most?
What is he accomplishing in this world? What would please him most today? You want to know what it looks like to set your affections on Things above where Christ is seated? Who is your life? That means we need to get to know this Jesus.
You might start to think as you attend our services more and more, you might just think, “He beats that drum a lot.” Well, friend, that’s pretty much what this life’s all about. There was some writers many, many years ago, it’s in the Westminster Catechism, it says that man’s chief end is to know God and enjoy him forever. They’re right about that. They’re dead on. You have one primary purpose, to know your creator and enjoy him forever.
Okay, so if I’m to set my affections on things above, then I need to get to know this Jesus. I want to know his mind. There’s a song we used to sing. I don’t remember exactly how it went, but the words were something like, I want to know you. I want to hear your voice.
I want to know your mind. It was a great little song some years ago. It’s dead on. So then life is more spent. If my life is Christ and all of these other things are who I am in Christ, I’m a father and this is something that God has gave me, but I am Christ’s first.
Then I’m constantly asking, okay, God, well, if I’m to be a good dad, what’s that look like? Who are you as a father? What do you love? How would you speak? How would you think?
How would you see that? How that dialogue might completely change the way you approach things. God, how would you be a boss in this situation? How would you be an employee in this moment? How would you speak, think?
That’s, I think, where Paul is at. Christ then becomes the center of our attention. His priorities are our priorities.
If you want to be transformed, you got to seek something other than the things that the world can give. Here’s what Jesus said himself on the Sermon on the Mount, chapter 6 of Matthew. He says, “Don’t worry about these things saying, ‘What will I eat? What will I drink? What will I wear?'” These things, they dominate the thoughts of unbelievers.
That’s true. “But your Heavenly Father already knows all your needs.” So here’s his command. Seek then the kingdom of God above all else and live righteously and he will give you everything you need. I want to give you an illustration to close this first idea. There’s currently right now, I think almost everyone in the room knows this, but there are sound waves in the air right now that you can’t hear.
Right now if we pause, you hear the air running, right? There’s that sound wave. You hear the sound of my voice. Some of those in the back corner, you might, if you tuned in real tight, you might be able to hear that refrigerator in the kitchen. You might even hear a light hum from the speakers.
Although I hope we’ve got that out.
You got your own voice, right? Which isn’t technically making sound, but there’s something going on there. But right now there are Your phones are communicating. Scary thought. Right now in every home in America, Alexa’s listening.
I mean, there are things going. There’s tons of audio waves in the air right now. And you and I can’t hear them. We don’t have the appropriate headwear. We need some antennas.
You know? We need some stuff. When you get in your car, you can tune it in and you got to get that right. None of us do that anymore because we just all have iPhones and phones and things like that. Some of you might still have a tuner and you’re thinking, “Man, I’m old school.” Here’s the thing I want you to hear, the reason I tell you this.
The Lord is speaking constantly. There is what you might call a heavenly sound wave that’s running constantly.
And the problem is not that God is not speaking. The problem is that we struggle to tune in. Now here’s the good news, friends. In Christ Jesus, you have been given the correct hardware.
But you’ve got to actually pull away enough from all this other noise to hear it. There’s many stories I could give you right now, but one that I would go to is God appears to one of the prophets and first comes through like a loud thunderstorm and an earthquake and various things come by. But the voice of God comes by in a very still and calm voice.
I don’t know exactly why God does this, but I think part of it is because he wants to be Lord of all. He wants to be the center of your attention. He has made you for himself. He wants to be at the core. And so he will often show up when things are most quiet.
So do you want to tune in? Do you want to be transformed? Then you’ve got to tune in. You’ve got to take time every single day living as if Christ is real, as if he’s really speaking. And maybe tomorrow, maybe before you close your eyes tonight, maybe as you’re on the way home today, say, God, I’m tuning in.
I’m tuning in. Speak to me. Let me hear your voice in prayer. Let me hear your voice in your word. Speak.
And remove some distractions. You know, when you wake up tomorrow, don’t open the phone up right away. Before you open anything, Lord, I’m tuning in. I want to hear your voice. I want to see your face.
I want to know you. That’s number 1. Set your minds on things above. Now, number 2, the second way in which we’re going to live transformed. And here’s the hard one.
Well, you might think so. I think number 1 is pretty challenging because we’re so distracted. Get that out. Set your affections there. And then Paul says, put the old self to death.
Whoa. Okay. I’m glad I came to church today. We’re talking about killing me. This is wild.
Put the old self to death. He says various ways here he’s put it. He says, put to death the old you, the old sin, The old mess, the stuff that you used to live in. And the way that he tells us this is not like some kind of self-effort and you’ve got to get it right. He’s saying, “Look, friends, you’re already dead in Christ.
So just accept this reality. Start to live as though you’ve actually had this occur in your life. Put it to death.” He says here, in fact, this word put to death, there’s no way of getting around it. It literally means to slay. He’s taking a radical approach.
Here’s the problem in a lot of Christians’ life, mine included. I often am not experiencing transformation because rather than killing sin, I’m tolerating sin. Rather than killing it, I’m trying to manage it. I’m just going to try to compartmentalize it and put it over here rather than say, this must die. I cannot do this anymore.
I will say there are many programs that get these things right, like the programs for alcoholics. He’s saying, “Hey, I can never ever touch this again because if I do, it’s too dangerous.” The rest of us should be treating sin like that. I am never ever going to dabble here again. I’m not going to manage it. I’m not going to tolerate.
I’m going to kill it. Jesus says it very plainly too. Don’t think for a moment that Paul has like somehow made this way higher. No. Jesus said it even stronger.
Matthew chapter 5, he says, “If your right eye causes you to sin, tear it out and throw it away.” That’s crazy. That’s what Jesus says. He goes on to say, “For it is better that you lose one of your members than for your whole body to be thrown into hell.” Now, is Jesus literally saying we need to tear off body parts? No, but he is definitely making this a dramatic emphasis.
He’s saying you need to put it to death. This thing you’ve been toying with that does not represent the new you, the new Christ in you. I love what John Owen once wrote, the famous Puritan pastor. He says, “Be killing sin or it will be killing you.” Good. Okay.
So this is a process. Put it to death. And then he gives us more. He says this first list that seems to be focusing primarily on passions and desires from immorality to covetousness, from idolatry here. He says sin In fact, he’s talking about this idea that it begins with your desires long before it begins with your behaviors.
This is what Jesus teaches in Matthew 15. He says, “For out of the heart come evil thoughts, murder, adultery, sexual immorality, theft, false witness, and slander.” Out of the heart come these things. You’ve been given a new heart in Christ Jesus. You have died and been raised in Christ Jesus. So he’s saying, hey, don’t manage Don’t encourage sin anymore.
Don’t tolerate it.
On account of these, Paul says, the wrath of God is coming. This is why God has to judge the earth, is because of man’s terrible brokenness that Christ has paid for. He gives us a second list here. He says, now put this stuff away too. Kill this, put this away: anger, wrath, malice, slander, Obscene talk.
Some of you in the room are like, “I know my anger is kind of unjustified.” But then you get to obscene talk and you go, “Ugh, man, I’ve been talking this way my whole life.” Yeah. Well, we came into this world sinners. We have to change at some point. At some point we have to say, “I’m not going to tolerate this lifestyle anymore. I’m not a particularly good witness by running my mouth the way I run it.” He says, put this stuff away.
This second list seems to be more relational. The first is about desires and passions. The second seems to be about how we deal with one another. Is it anger? Is it malice?
Do we speak ill of each other? And then he separates, verse 9, I find this fascinating. He separates this one thing. He says, do not lie. Do not lie.
Now I don’t know exactly why that one kind of has special attention, but I want to give just a couple of thoughts on the why. First of all, we know that the evil one is called the father of lies.
Lies. It’s kind of in his DNA. It’s who he is. And so when we lie, we most closely emulate the evil one. Also, I think so often Jesus says that he is truth, the gospel is truth, God is truth.
I think perhaps this is separate because it so models who we are in Christ Jesus. We should be truth tellers, not in the sense of telling people off, but in the sense of I don’t tell lies. I don’t even tell fibs.
Some of you have separated, you’ve tolerated even this field of lies and said, “Well, that’s more of a white lie.” What does that mean? “Well, I had to do this to save face. I had to do this to not hurt feelings.” Paul says simply, “Put it to death.” And closes this middle section by saying, “Put it off, put off the old self.” You’re set free from this, friends. You don’t have to live this way anymore. So many of us are tolerating this rather than putting it away and putting it to death.
Paul writes to the Roman church. He says, “We know that our old self was crucified with him in order that the body of sin might be brought to…” What does it say, church? Nothing. The body of sin in you is dead. It is killed.
It is done for by the cross of Christ. This is true. So now Paul is saying, so live that way.
I’m addicted. I’ve been this way my whole life. And we make excuses. I’m not saying this isn’t hard, but in the power of Christ Jesus, you are new. So no longer make excuses.
You can instead come before the Lord and say, man, look where I’m struggling. I’ve been doing this wrong for so long, Lord. I’ve built terrible habits in this field, but I don’t come saying, hey, I can’t change. I come saying, I want to I need your help, Lord Jesus.
We need to be careful with this, Christians. Church, we need to be careful with this. Making excuses for sin areas and saying, “Ah, this is how I was raised. This is how I’ve always been. I just have an addictive personality.” No, no, no.
Instead of that, say, “Hey, I’m a sinner saved by grace and I need the power of the Holy Spirit. Lord Jesus, help me in this place where I’ve struggled for so long.”. But I don’t want to be this way anymore. I’m new. Here’s what I know.
Lord, I know I’m new in you. I know you’ve transformed me. So let me see it. It’s a process, my friend. It should encourage you.
He goes on and to the Romans, Paul writes in chapter 6, verse 12. He says, let not sin therefore reign in your mortal body to make you obey its passions. It is no longer king. It’s no longer in charge. I noticed something this week as I was studying this and thinking about ways in which to illustrate this.
I thought of the story where Jesus comes and raises Lazarus from the dead. All of this language Paul has here about how we’ve died and we’ve been raised, and I started thinking about that. There’s something interesting about the Lazarus story. You know a lot of the details probably, but I’ll give you a few again because they’re so powerful. Jesus purposely— go back and read John chapter 10 and 11.
Jesus purposely waits. He does not come and heal Lazarus. He lets Lazarus die. That’s a whole different sermon that somebody probably needs to hear. I’ll preach that one Sunday.
But he lets Lazarus go ahead and die, and there is mourning in the camp, and he shows up, and Mary and Martha have two different complaints to towards him and they’re devastated because their brother has passed. And Jesus basically gives both of them a powerful testimony. He tells one of them, in fact, I am the resurrection and the life. He gives a clearer Savior testimony to them than maybe he had to so many prior. But he stands before the grave of Lazarus and it says very simply in the text that he wept.
But why did he wait? The reason he waited is because he wanted the people there. He wanted the witnesses there to see that he had power, not only in life, but in death. The Savior we serve, my friend, has power in all things. Life, death, resurrection.
He has the power. He has incredible power. Omnipotence. And so he waits to show up to do this thing. But here’s the thing.
Here’s the part I caught this week that really blew my mind. I’d never thought of it this way. When he says, you know these words, those of you who know the story, he stands, he weeps, and then finally he says, Lazarus, come forth. Cool. That’s so sweet.
And Lazarus comes creeping out of there, which must have been spooky. Some of us don’t think about just the creepiness of some of these stories. He comes coming out of there in what the Bible calls grave clothes. They’ve put these rags across him and covered him. And put spices on him, and he is beginning.
They’ve already said, “Hey, Jesus, he stinketh,” the King James says. “We don’t need to go in there. His body is beginning to turn.” And he says, “Lazarus, come forth.” That’s the first thing he says. You know what he says next?
“Unbind him. Take off these grave clothes.” Now here’s why that’s so sweet to me. Jesus has said to you and I, in the payment of the cross and the offering of salvation, he has said, “Jonathan, come forth.” And then the very next thing he says to you and me, “Take off those grave clothes.” That’s not minor. It’s not minor here to Paul. Paul says you’ve died and been raised in Jesus.
So here’s step 1. Put off the old grave clothes. That’s literally what this means. The word put off and put on in the Greek, it has to do with putting clothes on. He is literally saying take off the grave clothes.
They’re dead. In fact, I would argue they stink. The King James, they stinketh.
And we can all tell, friend, just out of love, just out of courtesy to you, when you decide to come into our Christian spheres with all your grave clothes back on, we can tell. And we love you. And those who love you and know you best will say, “Hey, buddy, you should take off those old nasty grave clothes and start living like the person you truly are in Christ Jesus.” You know you’ve got a true friend who will look you in the eyes and say, You are not that person anymore. In Christ Jesus, you are not that man. You are not that woman.
Live according to the power of the Holy Spirit in your life now. I know it’s a challenge. I’ve got mine. But I’m making a determination every single day that when I wake up and step my feet onto the floor, I don’t put on them nasty clothes that Christ died for. You hear this?
I pray you hear it. You’ve been saved and set free from it. Stop choosing the old man. That’s what the word literally means there. The old self, the old man.
Some of us have made peace with sins that Christ died to defeat. We’ve excused them. Some of us have excused our anger as personality.
Some of us have excused our gossip as, “I’m concerned.” No, you’re not. You’re a gossip and it needs to die. Some of us have excused our lust as, as this is a weakness. Yeah, it is. It’s called sin.
We’ve excused our greed as ambition. Paul says those things are dead. Jesus says, come forth and unbind him.
Stop, church. I pray today this doesn’t discourage you, but encourages you to stop coddling the things that Christ has condemned. Hear that. Put it to death. And then lastly, and let’s close here together, Paul writes very carefully.
He says, “So now put on like clothes, like new clothes, put on the new self.” This is where he concludes this thought. In fact, he’s concluding a long thought that he started back in Colossians Chapter 2. I want you to hear this whole section is centered around this idea that the people in the church are having trouble getting along. Sound familiar? Everywhere I go, workplaces, churches, various places that I’ve been, army.
You put people together, I’ve noticed something. They don’t get along all the time. Some of you have come to church expecting that these people will always get along. I have bad news. We are sinners.
We are, and I am one of them. Paul writes, “I am chief among them.” Sometimes I hurt people’s feelings. I didn’t even know I did it. I didn’t mean to. So often I hurt people and I didn’t even mean to do it.
Some people do it on purpose.
Paul says in the midst of all this, where he’s trying especially to get Jews and Gentiles to get along. He says right at the end, verse 11, Christ is all, is in all. Now there is no longer slave nor free, Jew nor Gentile, circumcised, uncircumcised. None of that stuff matters anymore. We’ve been, we’ve died and been raised in Christ Jesus.
We have a new identity, so put it on. I love this final section. Put on the new clothes, the new clothes in Christ Jesus, because he says in verse 10, The new self is being renewed to the image of its creator. Here’s what God is doing. This grand narrative, this whole Bible is one big story that God created a world that was awesome and he created man and woman in his image and he said it’s good and it’s good and it’s good.
And then man and woman, they failed and they sinned and they fell into sin and then we just see the darkness that comes. Because of the result of this mistake. But this story is basically a giant smile, or maybe you could call it a giant mountain, I don’t know. I would say the pinnacle is the cross, but to some degree it’s like the valley where Christ fixed it all. Where it’s bad, it’s bad, the people of God can’t get it right, they’re walking away from God, they ask for kings and the kings are a mess and It’s bad, it’s bad.
And then right in the middle of your Bible, all of a sudden the cross shows up and everything changes.
And it changes in such a way that it’s being restored. These things are not accidental. God has a perfect plan. Paul sees it clearly. He says this new self is being renewed into what?
The image of its creator. So the imago dei of Genesis chapter 1 and 2. Is being restored. This is what Revelation is overall truly about, the restoration of God’s creation. God is going to make it all things new again.
Here he tells the Colossians, and now he tells us, put on these new clothes.
Wake up tomorrow. This is going to be powerful for somebody Tomorrow, maybe even today, it’s going to be powerful for you to say, “This is who I’ve been, but in Christ Jesus, I’m done with that. I’m going to walk in newness of life. I’ve got a new set of clothes. I’m putting these on, and this new set of clothes is being renewed to look more like the imago dei, the image of God.
I want to look a little bit more like Jesus tomorrow than today.” Now that’s a task I can endeavor towards. I’m not going to perfect tomorrow, but I can look a little bit more like Jesus tomorrow than today. Maybe I start— some of you just need to make— maybe you just need to make a mental checklist. These are the things of the old self that I’ve been living in. I’m going to one by one put them to death.
I don’t know that I can do them all instantaneously. I would understand that. Maybe you’ve got a long list. But tomorrow I’m going to speak a little bit different. Maybe it’s simpler than that.
Tomorrow I’m going to think a little bit differently. I’m going to get up, talk to the Lord and say, help me with my mind today because you know how it goes to dark places. You know how easily angered I am, Lord. You know how given to frustration I am, but I’m new. And I believe that.
So I’m going to start there. I’m going to think a little different. And then a week later, my thinking is beginning to move into the image of its creator. So now my language, now my action, now this peace that I’ve been longing for, not only in my life, but in my home with my wife, with my husband, with my children. Now I am part of the influence.
I missed that. Maybe I missed the fact that the more I start to look like Jesus, The more I start to have the things of this world that I desired most. Peace, joy, love. He ends this section by saying, Christ is all and in all. Don’t miss his main theme, church.
Christ is your life. You want to look a bit like a transformed person? Look more like Jesus tomorrow. We are being transformed into his image. 2 Corinthians 3, it says, We all with unveiled faces, we contemplate the Lord’s glory and being transformed into his image with ever increasing glory.
It’s growing. I’m looking more like him, which comes from the Lord who is the Spirit. He also wrote to the Romans in chapter 8. He said, God knew his people in advance and he chose them to become like his son so that his son would be the firstborn. Among many brothers and sisters.
I want to end with a story that I think is appropriate for Fourth of July weekend. I was thinking about this as I studied this week. I’ve had these various times in my life where I felt like I had imposter syndrome. Anybody ever had that before? Where you feel like you started a job and you’re like, I don’t know why they hired me.
Because I don’t know what I’m doing. Or maybe you were in an environment. Maybe some of you feel that way at church. I pray that changes. And swiftly.
But maybe you feel like an imposter in here sometimes. Like, “I feel like everybody else in the room gets this and I don’t.” I really pray the Lord would move in your heart in such a way that you would feel like you belong. Because you do. But I felt probably the strongest imposter syndrome ever when I went off to basic training with the military. It’s kind of wild.
You get there and most guys, definitely me, You get there with orders. The government has said you’re supposed to be there. You get there with a uniform. I got ahead of the curve. I went ahead and cut my hair because I didn’t want them completely mowing me over with some dreadful haircut.
They accepted mine. It was very high and tight. So I went ahead and had the haircut. I had the orders. I had the uniform.
But I know this, I didn’t have a clue what to do. I didn’t know how to Speak. Here’s what’s crazy about military life. They talk different. They walk different.
They act different. Everything’s different. I didn’t know how to do any of that. I made mistakes constantly in my military service because I am a Southern gentleman. I’ll tell you what happens to me.
I came on to be an officer, and every time that I speak to an enlisted soldier, I’m not supposed to say, “Yes, sir.” But if you’re older than me, I can’t help myself. I got in trouble constantly in those 10 years for saying, “Yes, sir,” to people that are supposed to say, “Yes, sir,” to me, and it never felt normal.
That first month, 3 months at basic training, that first month, I was spooked. I didn’t know what to do. Everything’s different. I’m not a morning person. They got us up early, moving and working out.
Here’s what’s true, friends.
In Christ Jesus, you’ve been given orders. You’ve been given the uniform.
You’ve been called a son or a daughter of King Jesus. But you got to learn to do it now. It’s not an overnight change. I know some of you wish that was the case. It’s not so.
This is why Paul writes, put off and put on. And it doesn’t happen once. It happens daily. I have the uniform. It’s new life in Christ Jesus.
But I’ve got to put it on. And put it on correctly. I got to tuck in my boots right. I got to wear the uniform right. Because God has a prescription for how we should live.
And he has a training manual. And he has a drill sergeant. The Holy Spirit. That little voice that says, “Don’t say that. Don’t do that.
Stop that.” Can you start listening to that voice, please? Because it’ll get louder and then it’ll get really hard. Listen to it when it’s easy. I’m telling you, in the military this is very simple. The quicker you just say, “Yes, Drill Sergeant,” and do what you’re told, you stay under the radar.
“Yes, sir. Thank you, sir. Whatever you say. How high? How low?
Where do you want me Where do you want me to dig? Where do you want me to climb? I’m in. And you will never get in trouble. It’s those knuckleheads that show up and think they’ve got it figured out.
Their life is going to be a living yes.
And I watched it and giggled in my heart. Because you can’t giggle out loud because you’ll be next.
But this is the power of the Holy Spirit in your life pushing you, convicting you, urging you. Listen, you have the uniform, put it on and put it on according to the prescription of the Lord and walk in him. And then the one who has already transformed you will continue to transform you. I hope this helps you today. Set your minds on Christ.
Who are you? I want to know you. I want to hear your voice. This old me, I’m putting it to death. This stuff isn’t true anymore.
I’m not an angry person. I’m not an act. I’m not those things. You’re not. Your life is in Christ now.
And then put on the new uniform that says, “I identify with you, Lord Jesus. Walk in me. Walk by me, beside me.” As the ancient saints used to say, “Before me, behind me, beside me. Be ever present in my life.” Let’s pray now together, church. Heavenly Father, thank you so much for your goodness to us.
This whole sermon hinges around the fact that you first paid the ultimate price for us. The fact that we can have newness of life, the fact that the old self is truly dead and we can continue to put it aside, the fact that all of that is true is because of your sacrifice, Lord Jesus. Thank you for who you are. Thank you for your mercy and your grace to us. It is undeserved.
We praise you this morning. Lord, we also recognize that someone may have come in today and they’re enjoying this. Perhaps they’re even going, “Man, I wish I could do some of this.” But they know good and well that part of the struggle, part of the hangup they’re having is they’ve never said yes to Jesus to begin with. They have not yet died and been raised in Christ. If that’s you, my friend, today, you’re feeling this news.
That Christ Jesus has died for you. He has paid the ultimate price and you have newness of life because of this. I pray you’re hearing that today and ready to respond. It’s no accident that you’re here today. This is a perfect opportunity for you to say yes to Jesus and experience not only a current life change, but an eternal life change.
Dear friend, if that’s you, would you confess Christ Jesus as Lord and Savior with me today? Paul writes to the Romans in chapter 9, “If you confess with your mouth that Jesus is Lord and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved.” Friend, if that’s you, pray with me. Jesus, I believe today that you died on the cross for my sin, that you paid the price for my old life, but it’s dead now. And God, I believe you raised from the dead, and that gives me great hope. God, I’m asking now, would you guide me now in this newness of life?
Thank you for saving me. Help me now to live according to your purpose.
Help me to experience this new uniform, this new— these new clothes, this new self you’ve given. Dear friend, if you prayed that with me, by faith you have been saved. He now walks with you. Take every opportunity every day to speak and to interact and to be in his word and to be in prayer. And we are alongside you, the whole church right now.
Lord, we lift this up. Lord, help us to walk in newness of life. You have said, come forth. Now, Lord, also charge us daily. To unbind, to take off those grave clothes and live in a new life.
We love you, Lord Jesus. Thank you for all your tender mercies. It’s in your name we pray. Amen.
Romans 12 tells us to "be transformed by the renewal of your mind." But that naturally raises a question: How? How does someone actually live a transformed life?
Have you ever wondered why so many Christians struggle to experience real transformation? We believe the Gospel. We know Christ has saved us. We still worry like the world worries, chase what the world chases, lose our temper over the same frustrations, seek our identity in our careers or accomplishments, and return to the same sins we've battled for years. The problem isn't that Christ has failed to transform us. The problem is that we often continue living as though our old life is still our true life.
As we will see today, we can learn to live as the new people Christ has already made us. In Colossians 3:1–11, the apostle Paul taught the Colossian believers that because they had died and been raised with Christ, they were to live out the transformed life that Christ had given them.

