From the Feed to the Word
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Good morning, church. Great seeing all of you here this morning. We’re kicking off a new sermon series, a 4-week sermon series entitled Connected: Finding Real Community in a Digital World. And the truth is that we’re more digitally connected than ever, but we’re also more lonely than ever. This is what psychologists and others have reported, that loneliness is an epidemic in America today.
And though technology can draw us closer together, it can also push us apart. But the answer isn’t just ditching our devices, it’s refocusing what we’re devoted to. It’s making a decision to lean into what God really made us for. And he made us for himself and he made us for one another. And so that’s what this series is about.
We’re gonna just talk about how we can pull our affections away from those things that distract and put our affections more fully on the Lord. Now, for those of you that are here for the first time, you’re probably here because of Kids Fest this week. We invited you and you’ve come, and we got to hear the children give their, uh, their song they learned and some, uh, their Prove It verse, which was amazing, adults, right? I mean, that was a pretty long passage that they memorized. And so we’re thankful for them, and, and we love kids, and that’s why we make such a big deal about kids.
Jesus said, suffer the little children to come unto me, for such is the kingdom of heaven. And we believe that And so this week, thanks for sharing your kids with us. This week, all in the building all week long, the laughter, the singing, the hearing of the gospel. We’re so thankful that you trusted your kids with us. And speaking of guests, I wanna give a welcome to Pastor Ralph here, Ralph Downing and his wife, who’s here visiting with us today.
Give everybody a wave there, Pastor Ralph. He attends the monthly meeting of pastors our Christ Together for Wilson Pastors prayer that meets monthly. And so, uh, we’ve become prayer warriors together for this city, for the revival of this city. And I greatly appreciate, appreciate you, Pastor Ralph, being here today. Now, as, as we’re thinking about Kids Fest, I, I want to give you some feedback about how it went this week.
And we, we heard some of the things they learned. We saw a quick video of some of the things they did. But let’s get to really what matters most, and that’s this. How did they respond? How many came?
That sort of thing. And so we had 159 kids come to the Wilson campus. We had 63, so that’s 222 kids that we served this week, right? That’s awesome. 222 kids that we were able, we fed them dinner every evening.
We taught them the scripture. It was a fantastic week. Here’s a number that really matters a lot to me. 70%, 70% of the 222 kids did not, they don’t go to our church. They’re guests.
And so only 30% are members of our church. And I think that’s attributable, uh, to you inviting people to come to church. I’m so thankful your kids invited their friends to come to church and also your faithful giving to our It’s Time generosity initiative, which enabled us to, uh, spend money on our community engagement so that people knew that we were having this event. And so we’re thankful for you and your inviting and your generosity that made it possible for us to reach that many children. Did you know that we had a 1-to-1 ratio of volunteers to children?
So we had 222 kids and we had a little over that volunteers. We actually had more volunteers than we had kids at both campuses. That’s amazing, isn’t it? Now here’s, here’s the bottom line though. Did you know that 23 kids prayed to receive Jesus in Wilson this week?
23. And 13— I’m sorry, 15. 15 at the Rocky Mount campus, right? So that’s 38 kids that said yes to Jesus this week. And many other decisions were made as they heard a clear presentation of the gospel.
We had— I’m looking. Yeah, we had like 30-some kids in Wilson, about that many in Rocky Mount who said, hey, I want to know more about it. You know, I want you to tell me more about it. And some of them said, I want to be baptized. They’d already made a decision.
So this is what we were doing this past week, if you were wondering. I was talking to some of the volunteers a little bit ago and I said, how you doing? They said, I’m just now starting to recover. Okay, it was a full week, but wasn’t it worth it? Wasn’t it worth it?
Now, as we think about our kids, as we think about them, and as I think about them as a father and as a grandfather of 10 grandchildren now, and perhaps you’ve been thinking of some of the things I’ve been thinking, so many of our kids, as they come to be with us, and as grandparents they come with us, they all bring with them their iPads and their iPhones. They all bring it with them. And often I have to compete with those things just to talk to them as their pawpaw, right? This is a new phenomenon, but it’s not that new, but it’s becoming more and more, more and more connected to this generation. Uh, perhaps you’re concerned about it like I am, not just for the kids and the grandkids, But for me too, screen time, how much time we spend connected in the digital world.
Did you know that this past May, May 2026, that the Attorney General of the United States put out this? He put out the Surgeon General’s warning on the harms of screen use. He says this, children today spend more time on screens than sleeping, than exercising, or engaging face-to-face with friends. Family and friends. And we are seeing the consequences in rising rates of anxiety, depression, obesity, and developmental challenges.
And so it’s gotten so serious that it’s like a warning on the side of a cigarette package. So there ought to be a warning, Surgeon General’s warning, on the side of your smartphone, right? That, that too much use of this leads to— and you already heard the list. The advisory goes on to put out a study that says adolescents are now looking at screens 7 to 9 hours out of every day. 7 to 9 hours out of every day.
Last week in the sermon I reported I was gonna tell you more about this and I reported that sleeping is the number one human activity. If you took 70 years, you would say 20 years of your 70 years you spent being asleep. And then number 2 was looking at a screen. That’s what I said last week. I got it wrong with the next generation that’s coming up.
It’s actually, Screen time is now becoming more than sleep. Why? Because they take their smartphones and their pads to bed with them. And so we see students showing up at school and teachers— you teachers are reporting this to me— they show up exhausted and the teacher asks, why are you so tired? Because I didn’t go to sleep until 3 AM.
What were you doing until 3 AM? I was, I was looking at my phone. I was talking to my friends. I was watching reels. This is a problem that we’re seeing, and it’s a growing problem.
And now maybe some of you are doing the math right now, and you’re thinking, I wonder how many hours a day I spend looking at screens. It’s not just kids, and it’s not just grandkids. It’s not just adults. How much time am I spending looking at screens? And you’re trying to do the math on it.
And I got to tell you, I’ve done the math on it myself as I’ve been looking, and I’m concerned about it too for my 68-year-old self who grew up without all this stuff, but it’s easy to become too well connected to it. So here’s what the advisory says to parents. It says it isn’t just the amount of hours that they’re spending, it’s the irritability when you try to take the device away from them. It’s the secrecy. It’s the secrecy where they’re not telling you what they’re looking at.
It’s the withdrawal from everything in the real world so that they’re living in this fictitious world, this virtual world. It’s when you try repeatedly to take those devices away from them, the outrage that you experience from the children. You see, it’s more than a screen time problem, it’s a bondage problem. People are becoming addicted. Those are the marks of something that owns you.
There’s even a word for it now that psychologists have coined. It’s called nomophobia. You heard of this? No mo— no mobile phone phobia. It’s the anxiety you feel at the thought of being without your phone.
I got a dead battery. Wait a minute, there’s no signal. There’s no signal. Uh-oh, I left my phone at home. I got to turn around and go back home and get that thing.
I can’t leave home without it. Uh, psychologists describe real symptoms: agitation, racing heart, panic. We’ve invented a device that our bodies now grieve the absence of. I got to have my— I got to have it. Jonathan Haidt, the author of the book The Anxious Generation, he’s a, uh, social psychologist at New York University.
Not, not a Christian, a scientist reading the data. He says this, my central claim in this book is that these 2 trends, overprotection in the real world and underprotection in the virtual world, are the major reasons why children born after 1995 became the anxious generation. Overprotection in the real world, underprotection in the virtual world. We live in a world where a 12-year-old cannot ride their bicycle around the block without parental supervisory, you know, supervision, but we’ll give them the entire internet in a pad and send them to their room and let them go to bed with it. This is upside down.
We’ve locked the front door and left the back door swinging wide open because a feed is not neutral. A feed is not just a window that you’re looking into. It’s not just a window, but it’s a hand reaching back out towards you. We call it an algorithm. It’s built not to help you, it’s built to know you.
It’s built to know what you click on, what you scroll past, what you linger on. It’s built as a business model to make you linger and stay and keep gazing. It’s designed to own you. Now, to be clear, it doesn’t hate you. It’s just a machine, and an algorithm is just a mathematical formula, but it doesn’t care about you either.
And the truth is, we should all be concerned about what happens to you if you spend 8 hours a day doing anything. It’s forming our children. It’s forming us right now. Something that doesn’t care about us, doesn’t desire any good for us. It only wants to sell us something.
This is not a new problem. It’s an old ache in new clothes. Listen to the Apostle John, an old man writing his second letter. It’s in the Bible, 2 John, verse 12. He says, though I have much to write to you, I’d rather not use paper and ink, Instead, I hope to come to you and talk face to face so that our joy may be complete.
Here he is 2,000 years ago and he says, pen and paper’s not good enough. It’s the best I can do right now. I’m gonna send you this letter, but I can’t wait to be with you face to face so that our joy may be complete because real connection happens face to face.
Can you just kind of think about that? Real connection The way God made you happens face to face. And that leads us to our series theme verse, and this is how we’ll roll out our 4 sermons during this season. What are we supposed to be devoted to? What should we spend our time doing?
And the book of Acts says that the first century church devoted themselves to the apostles’ teaching, to the fellowship, to the breaking of bread, and the prayers. And so that kind of gives us the formula for the next 4 sermons, and we’ll start with the apostles’ teaching, which is Scripture. They were devoted to that. The Apostle Paul, in his second letter to Timothy, says he urges Timothy to be devoted to the Scriptures. Why?
Why does he want him to be devoted? Why should we be devoted to the Scriptures? And so that’s what our message is about. The text gives us 3 reasons why we are called to be devoted to the Scripture. So let’s go to 2 Timothy chapter 3, we’ll pick up at verse 14, and we’ll see what the Apostle Paul tells his spiritual son in the Lord Timothy about what you should be living most of your life spending time and devotion towards.
But as for you, continue in what you have learned and have firmly believed, knowing from whom you learned it, and how from childhood you have been acquainted with the sacred writings, which are able to make you wise for salvation through faith in Christ Jesus. All Scripture is breathed out by God and profitable for teaching, for reproof, for correction, and for training in righteousness, that the man of God may be complete, equipped for every good work. This is God’s Word. Amen. Looking for 3 reasons why be devoted to God’s Word.
Here’s the first. Because it leads us to Christ. Why does the Apostle Paul tell Timothy to be continually in God’s Word, devoted to God’s Word? Because it makes us wise unto salvation. It leads us to Christ.
Paul begins with this phrase, but as for you, and that’s the transition from who he’s been talking about. He talks about those who are evil people and imposters, This is verse 13, who go on from bad to worse, deceiving and being deceived. And so there are all kinds of opinions. There’s all sorts of sources of truth. We have more access to knowledge today than we’ve ever had.
It all comes to us. All we have to do is Google it. And you don’t even have to punch it in anymore. You can hit that little microphone thing and just ask it the question. And it goes out into the Google universe and gives us the truth.
Or at least as it can discover. And so everyone’s an expert now. We don’t need doctors and lawyers and pastors anymore. We don’t need people who go to school and learn how to do all these things. We can just Google it.
We can know these things. But the Apostle Paul says, don’t be deceived. As for you, Timothy, I want you to stay in what you’ve learned and what you put your faith in, what you’ve believed. And you learned this from your childhood. This is what he says, look, but as for you, continue in what you have learned and have firmly believed, knowing from whom you learned it and how from childhood you’ve been acquainted with the sacred writings, which is the Scriptures, the Holy Scriptures, sacred writings.
But as for you, Instead of spending your time listening to all these contrary voices, listen to the Scripture. Devote yourself to that. There’s really only one— if you read this in the Greek, which is the original language of the New Testament, there’s really only one imperative verb here, and it arrives early in verse 14, but as for you, continue in. And that’s the That’s the command, Paul, continue in. That could be translated, be devoted to, spend your time, abide in would be a really good translation.
But as for you, live in, pitch your tent here in God’s Word, continue in it, abide in it, be devoted to it. And then he begins to tell, Timothy, why, why? And the first reason he gives is in verse 15, and he says, because it’s able to make you wise for salvation through faith in Christ Jesus. It reveals Jesus to us. I’m always telling people, when you read the Bible, look for Jesus on every page.
Look for Jesus on every page, because the book, it tells us about us, it tells you about you, it tells you about me, But it’s mostly a book about God. And it’s mostly pointing us so that we might have faith and salvation in Jesus Christ. He refers to his childhood, what you learned and what you firmly believed. What’s the context of this? What, continuing what you grew up in, what you had from your childhood.
All we have to do is go back a couple chapters and see how he opened up his second letter to Timothy. He’s talking about this. 2 Timothy 1:5, I think this is what he’s connecting to. He says, I’m reminded of your sincere faith, the faith that dwelt first in your grandmother Lois and your mother Eunice, and now I’m sure dwells in you as well. And so he says, hey, you grew up with your mother and your grandmother Lois and Eunice teaching you the sacred scriptures, teaching you God’s word, continue in that.
Don’t go astray from that. Boy, that’s a great testimony. Paul knows Timothy really well. He’s known him since he was young. He calls him his spiritual son in the Lord.
He loves him. He knew his, he knew his mother and his grandmother. And so, uh, he, he names them and goes, hey, you need to continue. They were trustworthy. Look at their life.
Look at how they followed God. And now they pass the scriptures on to you and says, I’ve taught you. And, and so there’s credible sources that have passed this on to you. Parents, grandparents, I hope you’re acting as Lois and Eunice did for Timothy. I hope you’re passing on the word of God to them that, that can make you wise unto salvation so that your children can join you in heaven someday.
Because of all the, all the accomplishments that you could educate your children for and all, all the ways you could, you could help them, it seems to me that you could give them the opportunity for the gift of eternal life would be one of the greatest gifts you could give them. And so he says, keep in that because it makes you wise unto salvation. Now look, I gotta say, I don’t know who Lois and Eunice are, but they sound like they’re from Black Creek to me. They sound really local. And I have kind of a testimony like Timothy.
Some of you have Timothy testimonies. And when I was younger, I thought I’d go to a revival service or something and I would hear someone give their testimony and they would be like, yeah, I was so bad.
I was doing this. I was, I was, I, you know, I was in prison and, you know, I, you know, I killed somebody. I mean, they would tell these horrible things and you’ll all be like, wow, you really were bad. And but then Jesus came, but God, and, and they would have these testimonies of this like road to Damascus, the Apostle Paul being blinded. And I would be like, man, that’s a great testimony.
And then somebody would ask me, Gary, what’s your testimony? I’d go, I got a Timothy testimony and I’d kind of apologize for it. You know, like my mother and grandmother, ’cause my father died when I was 8 years old and my mother and my grandmother raised me from my infancy in the scriptures. That wasn’t Lois and Eunice, it was Wilda and Eddie Elizabeth.
And there’s my grandmother with a big old black Bible on her lap and I can still see her reading it to myself and all the grandkids. She had 21 of them, so she kept her busy. I’m thankful now for a boring Timothy testimony. I thought it was a problem at one time. Like Paul says, you got a Timothy testimony, don’t depart from it.
And if you don’t have a Timothy testimony, maybe you got a Paul testimony, don’t depart from that either. Continue in it. Here’s what Jesus said, as he talked about the scriptures, and he’s talking to those who are even students of the scriptures in John chapter 5, he says, you search the scriptures because you think that in them you have eternal life. And it is they that bear witness about me, yet you refuse to come to me that you may have life. He was even teaching those that were students of the scriptures, but yet they had not believed in him because they proclaim him.
Google Maps can lead you to a place, But only God’s Word can lead you to a person, and that’s the person of Jesus Christ. Do you know him today? And this is one of the main reasons why Paul says that we are to devote ourselves. And to do that, to devote yourself to something means that you’re not devoting yourself to something else. And here’s the real meaning of worship, I think.
It’s to pull your affections off of your idols and to put them on Jesus. To pull them off, that’s— and to put them on. And so to pull them off, sometimes that’s what you got to do. And you’ll lose, you’ll lose 30 minutes or an hour sometimes. You didn’t even notice how it happened.
It’s because this thing just pulls you in. Ask yourself, what receives my first Priority attention each day. How do I start my day? Do I start it with the news? Do I start it with, uh, that which was formerly known as Twitter, X?
Do I start it with Instagram? How do I start my day and then wonder why am I anxious the rest of the day? Or do I give the first part of my day, give my first attention abiding and continuing in God’s word? This is the first reason that he gives for why you should continue, because it leads you to salvation in Jesus. Here’s the second reason he gives, we find it in verse 16.
It’s because it speaks with God’s authority. Why, why should you give your attention to this book? Because it’s the only book in the library. It’s only the only book in the, in the library of the world that speaks with God’s authority. Look at verse 16.
All scripture— how much of the scripture?
All, all Scripture is breathed out by God. Interesting Greek word, theopneustos. It’s a compound Greek word. It only occurs one time in the New Testament. In Greek studies, they call it a hapax legomenon, a one-word only, only one word.
It— that’s if you’re studying Greek and you’re trying to build up your Greek vocabulary, which I I used to call it baby Greek ’cause I had to rock it to sleep every night. I mean, it’s just studying Greek. But that word only happens once. Thank you, Paul. Only once.
It’s nowhere else in the whole Bible. It’s translated here, all Scripture is breathed out by God, but it literally is all Scripture is God-breathed. Theos, God, pneustos, breath, spirit. God inspired.
It was written by over 40 human authors over a period of 1,600 years. There’s no other book like it, but its internal claim is that God breathed it into these men who then wrote it down. He did not do harm to their personalities or the way they spoke. If they were Hebrew, they spoke in Hebrew. If they were in In 2,000 years ago time when the national or the international language, really the language of the marketplace was Koine Greek, which means common Greek, they wrote it in Greek.
They wrote with their own personality because when God breathes life into you, he retains your personality, but then he breathes his word into you. And so when they wrote it down, they wrote exactly what the Spirit told them to write. But according to the way they would write. Does that make sense? I could talk more about it, but that’s what is all there.
All scripture is God-breathed. All scripture is theopneustos. It’s all God-breathed. If you don’t get anything else, get that. There’s no other book like it on planet Earth.
God wrote a love letter, and it’s to you, and it’s to me. It’s breathed out by God. And it’s, it’s not just a book that you ought to be like, well, that’s a really important book, let’s put it in a— and on, you know, like let’s put it under glass and let’s present like that. No, it’s profitable. It doesn’t just belong in a museum.
It’s profitable. It’s useful. It’s practical. You can use it for your life. How could you use it?
He gives us 4 ways you can use it. You can use it for teaching, which teaches you what’s right. You want to know what’s right? Put this in your hard drive.
It reproves, it shows you what’s wrong. So it teaches you what’s right, it proves to you what’s wrong, it reproves you. It corrects, it gets you back on the right path. Interesting Greek word, I’ll stop on this one. I don’t think I’m going to give you any more Greek, but here’s another, I couldn’t help it on this one.
The word correction has at its root ortho, like orthodontist, straighten your teeth. Orthopedic surgeon, straighten out your crooked leg, right? And it’s the idea of to straighten out that which is crooked, correction. You got to admit there was some meat on the bone there, I had to give it to you. It puts you back on the right path.
And then the word training, it teaches you how to stay on that path so that you— 4 ways that that this God-breathed book, this Word, is useful teaching, reproof, correction, and training. In what? In righteousness. And what is righteousness? It’s that which satisfies God.
It’s that which pleases God. You want to please God? Get in his Word. Let it saturate your— saturate your thinking and your soul and God’s Word is more powerful than any human algorithm. In fact, the book of Hebrews describes it like this: For the Word of God is living and active, sharper than any two-edged sword, piercing to the division of soul and of spirit and of joints and of marrow, and discerning the thoughts and intentions of the heart.
It’s like a scalpel. It’s like a surgeon. And it tells you who you are and who God wants you to be and how to live in a relationship, righteous relationship with him, and how to live in a righteous relationship with others.
I spent years before the pastorate running drugstores. I used to be a district manager for a major drugstore chain for 12 years. And one of the things that you learn as a retailer, and you’ve heard it before, the customer is always— customer is always right. That’s not a moral principle, that’s a business principle. You want the customer to be happy so they’ll stay in your store and keep buying stuff.
And that’s the algorithm, it’s the business principle. You’re always right. Stay.
Buy more. Speaking of that, have you ever been like looking— not on social media now— you’re over here at the walmart.com or the amazon.com and you look for something that you’d like to buy. You’re not ready to buy it yet, but you’re looking at it. Or you’re over there at cars.com or wherever it is .com, you looked at a certain vehicle, and then the next time you open your social media, there that car is. Every place I go, that car there, that car is again.
And then you just feel like, I gotta, I gotta, I gotta have that car.
Doesn’t matter if you got the money. I feel like I gotta have it. Well, that’s what is going on with that algorithm. It’s almost like the first time that happens to you and that pops up and you go, I gotta get— what? I believe the devil’s in there.
And maybe he is. I’m not talking about the phone, I’m not talking about the algorithm. I’m just saying he’s out there and maybe he takes advantage of it. Now what if doctors thought like business people thought? What if they said that the patient is always right?
What if that— what if doctors thought that way? You come to the doctor, you pay your copay, you pay your 20% or whatever the insurance company says you’ve got to pay, and the doctor says you’re doing great. Take some tests. They look at the test. You’re awesome.
Year from now, you’re dying. Go back to the doctor and you say, why’d you tell me that? Well, I thought it might make you feel better. Plus, I want you to come back for your annual checkup because I’m trying to make some money off of you. Boy, what kind of doctor would that be?
That’s got to be malpractice, doesn’t it? I mean, so here’s the diagnostic. Your feed is a salesman. God’s Word is a physician, the Great Physician. And only one of them is telling you the truth.
Only one of them cares about you. When was the last time your Bible told you something you didn’t want to hear? Because it— every time I open it, it tells me something I didn’t want to hear. It corrects. It sets straight that which is crooked.
And boy, it doesn’t take me but 24 hours to get some things out of line.
It teaches, it exposes, it corrects, it trains. It’s God-breathed. And the goal of God’s Word is to bring you into alignment with God’s Spirit and God’s will so that he might breathe into you, make you a new creation. And so he’s given us 2 reasons now why we should continue in God’s Word. He says it’s because it It makes you wise unto salvation through faith in Christ Jesus.
It’s God-breathed. It has God’s authority. And here’s the third reason he gives. It’s because it equips us for good work.
It equips. It’s practical. It equips us. We’re at verse 17 now, and here we arrive at the purpose clause. Here’s where the plane lands.
That the man of God may be complete, equipped for every good work. Verse 17. You want to be complete? You want to be whole spiritually? Spiritually whole, healthy spiritually, relationally, physically, mentally?
God’s Word, it equips you unto completion. It completes so that you can live according to God’s purpose for your life so that you accomplish the work he made you for. And make no mistake, you were made for a reason. You’re not an accident. God made you for his purposes.
He has a purpose for your life. He loves you and he’s called you and he’s given you this love letter, his word, to make you complete. This is why we should pull our affection off of other distracting things and devote it to God’s Word so that we might be complete, equipped. This word equipped, some translations say thoroughly equipped, has the idea perhaps of someone on a job site that’s got his toolbox and his uniform, or maybe a soldier who the military has equipped with the uniform and all the weapons needed and all the things to take care of every possible mission that’s been given to them. It has that idea that God’s Word is so practical that it equips you and completes you.
But you have to do it. You can’t just read it and forget it. That’s what James says in chapter 1 of James. He said, be doers of the Word, not hearers only, deceiving yourself. It’s not enough just to know it.
You have to do it. You have to carry it out. You have to practice it. Ephesians, Paul says to the church at Ephesus, he said, we’re, we’re God’s workmanship. Created in Christ Jesus for good works, which God prepared beforehand that we should walk in them.
You were made for a purpose. He’s prepared you for it.
You ever, you ever driven by or walked into a fire station? There’s one over here on, on Forest Hills. Every time I drive to the church, there’s a flashing yellow light there unless the alarm goes off, and then it turns red and the garage doors open and the fire truck comes out. And that happens sometimes. You got to wait for that and let them go because they’ve got an emergency.
You got to let them go. If you ever look in there, they are thoroughly equipped. They are thoroughly— they got, they got these fancy trucks and sirens. They got uniforms they wear that keep them safe in, in, in heat and in fire. They’ve got oxygen masks and they’ve got all kinds of axes and drills.
They’ve got this thing called the jaws of life that can open up a car that’s been in a car accident. They’ve got They’re thoroughly equipped up in there. But imagine this, imagine a fire station and the alarm goes off. They’ve been training, they got all the equipment, the alarm goes off and the garage door don’t open. They go, we’re good.
That wouldn’t be a fire station, that would be some kind of club.
And that’s a lot of churches. We, we’re thoroughly equipped, but the bell goes ring and we don’t get up and move. And the bell’s ringing today, friends.
Be doers of the Word. You want to be complete? Go do it. Devote yourself to it and then go do it. And, and so we— I guess if you were to look at our church, we might be one of the best-equipped churches We got— we’re very highly equipped here, and the bell’s been ringing the whole time.
How are you answering it? Not just hearing it, not just reading it, not just studying it, but also doing it. And so you hear that someone in your community group been in the hospital, and they just got home, and you want to help them out, but you don’t want to bother them. So you send them a text message with 3 emojis because you really love them.
It would scare them to death probably if you showed up and rang the doorbell and brought them a meal that you personally prepared. Now don’t stay too long. They’re not feeling well. But when the bell rings, You’re equipped. Go.
You’ve been equipped to pray for them. You’ve been equipped to pray over them in faith. Go and say, hey, I’m just going to drop off this food for you. I love you. Just want to pray for you for a minute, and then I’m going to get out of here.
I hope you enjoy the meal. It would— people would be like, you know, my own family doesn’t love me like that.
My own family doesn’t love me like that. What if we started being the people Getting back to what we’re really talking about here, who experience the complete joy of living life face to face. So that as we devote ourselves to God’s Word, we get face to face as his Holy Spirit breathes life into us, this God-breathed Word. And then he empowers us to go and live face to face with each other, not like some I see sitting around a table at the restaurant, 4 people all with their phones waiting for their food, no conversation. But what if we started saying, I’m going to put that away.
I’m not saying you need to throw it in the garbage. I’m not saying you need to smash it on your driveway. I’m just saying learn some self-control from the Holy Spirit. Holy Spirit, give me some self-control to, to say no to that so I can say yes to more face-to-face relationships with God and one another.
So when the bell rings, are you going to answer? When the bell rings and God calls you to do something, you’ve made time for it. Our feeds promise connection, but they really leave us distracted, divided, and spiritually hungry.
God’s Word offers something better. It gives us the wisdom to have faith in Jesus and to receive salvation. It speaks with God’s authority and equips us thoroughly for God’s work. So the invitation today is not throw away your phone, it’s to examine who or what has your devotion. Your feed is constantly being refreshed, but it can never refresh your soul.
Only God can do that. And go back to verse 15, because I don’t want this passage in this sermon to become like a burden of, of making you feel guilty. Remember what this Bible promises. Verse 15, it’s able to make you wise for salvation through faith in Christ. It’s not your devotion to God’s word that saves you.
It’s your devotion to God’s word that gives you the wisdom to put your faith in Jesus. See, that’s the gospel. It’s God, it’s Jesus that saves. And as you’ve been sitting here thinking and you’ve been doing the math going, I wonder how many hours a day I’m giving to screens, and I wonder how many hours a day my children, my, my teens are giving. And as you’re letting that all work out, the enemy would love nothing more today for you to walk out of here and make some kind of new resolution in your own strength that you’ll fail at.
So let me give you a breath of fresh air. Let me give you the good news from Jesus, because the gospel is not try harder. The gospel’s not make a new resolution. Try harder never made anybody complete. There is a word that was breathed out, and, and here it is.
And there is a word, John tells us, In the beginning was the Word, and the Word was with God, and the Word was God. And then in verse 14, and the Word became flesh. He left heaven and he visited us. He came in person. He didn’t just send a text, an Instagram.
He didn’t even write with pen. He came in person and he became one of us, and he took our sin upon himself, and he died on a cruel cross. Took my death, took my shame, took my sin, took my separation from the Father, crying out, my God, my God, why have you forsaken me?
That’s what he did. And then on the 3rd day, he was raised back to life again so that all who place their faith in him might have that which he laid aside on our behalf so that we could have his eternal life, we could have his righteousness. And we could have his adoption and be part of God’s family. That’s the good news. And we can be devoted to this Word, not, not because we come to it doing or earning, but because we come to it as a table that’s been set by someone else for us.
So are you hungry?
Come and let him fill you. Are you lost? Let him find you. Come and surrender and let him save you. Why be devoted to his word?
Because he spoke. He wrote you a letter. Why not read it? Why not meet Jesus? Do you know him today?
Let’s pray.
Father, I first of all pray for that person that’s here today and you’ve never given your life to the Lord. You never surrendered your life to Jesus. The scripture says that if you confess that Jesus is Lord with your mouth and, and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved. And so I invite you right now, right in your seat, right where you are, to pray. You can pray like this: Dear Lord Jesus, I’m a sinner, but I believe you died on the cross for me, that you were raised from the grave, that you live today.
Come and live in me. Forgive me of my sin. I confess you as my Savior and my Lord. Adopt me into your family. I want to be a child of God and follow you all the days of my life.
I surrender my life to you. If you’re praying that prayer of faith, believing he’ll save you. Others are here today and you’re a believer, you’re a follower of Jesus, but this word has convicted you. And so don’t leave beat up, but leave with the grace of Jesus, knowing that he who commands and calls also empowers, and say, Lord, would you give me the wisdom now to devote myself more fully to your word and to have self-control in the area of screen usage for myself, but also for my children and for my grandchildren, so that we rightly learn to use these tools that can be good, but they can also be tools of evil if improperly used. Lord, give us wisdom and grace in this.
In Jesus’ name, amen.
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Let’s dig in today in a new series called Connected. So if it’s your first time with us or you have— you’re just coming back, we’re starting a new series today. It’s a great, great jumping-in point, uh, but this sermon series, uh, the, the goal is to find real community. Um, we live in a hyper-digital world, and yet we are finding that generally we don’t feel more connected. We often feel less connected, which is, is kind of ironic in a way, although we have the ability to be more connected with others through digital means, it just doesn’t quite feel the same.
So our goal is in this series to rediscover what it means to have a true authentic relationship with God and with the people of God. And so I pray that this will feed you today, encourage you today. I have to admit something, there’s some toe-stompers in this sermon. I pray you’ll forgive me for that. This message kind of stumped me.
For most of the week because I uniquely struggle with this. I’m 40 years old, y’all, and I grew up, it wasn’t, I was pretty young when I got my first Nintendo. And that changed my life in not all good ways. Christ Jesus truly changed my life, but unfortunately Nintendo had an effect. And ever since I was like 5 years old, I have gone in and out of struggles with screen time.
And what you’re going to find as we dig into today, I’m going to talk about that quite a bit, but my hope for you, and I’m saying this right away, is I want you to feel encouraged to walk with Christ Jesus and not discouraged by stuff you might feel ashamed of, because I felt some of that this week, but I was drawn back to the Savior who loves me and you and who bled and died for me and you and wants a relationship with us. That’s what this is about, is true community with the God who created us and loves us. So let’s dig into this. I’m going to give you some stats right away that’ll get your brain churning a little bit. The average person, just so you know, spends about 7 hours a day looking at screens.
7 hours a day. Studies are showing now that most of us, when we die, we will have spent 20 years looking at screens. And the number is rising for Gen Z and younger. In fact, they’ve developed a word lately because we’ve gotten so addicted to this thing, if you will, that they’ve created a word now called nomophobia. You’re thinking this is a lie.
You can look it up. You can Google this. I thought this is the craziest thing I’ve ever heard, but it’s a real word. It’s a real thing that people go to therapists for, and it means no mobile phone phobia. It’s a phobia that people have when their phone dies or they lose it, they can’t find it, and they feel like, oh no, I’m in trouble.
Apparently like 60% of people have some version of nomophobia. More than half. It’s wild, huh? You’re sitting there going, do I have my phone on silent? You’re thinking about it right now.
Go ahead and silent it just for all of us because you love us so much. This thing, we carry it around and it causes us to feel anxiety sometimes. It’s even harder on our children. In a recent book, and I would recommend this book to you, called The Anxious Generation— this is a really good book by Jonathan Haidt— he says right away, he says, my central claim in this book is that these 2 trends, overprotection in the real world and underprotection in the virtual world, are the major reasons why children born after 1995 became the anxious generation. Any, any post-1995ers in the room?
Go ahead, don’t be afraid. There’s a handful of y’all. Some of you might be like, I’m not that anxious. Well, just so you know, you’ve been dubbed so. I didn’t make that, that’s, that’s someone else.
And this guy makes the argument that part of the reason for that is parents, millennials especially, a lot of us were helicopter parents in the real world and had no idea what was happening in the virtual world. And so over here, it’s like, I, I got to protect my kid, I got to protect them from all this stuff, and then I hand them a cell phone and they’re up at midnight watching God only knows what. In fact, most people were like, I can’t let my 12-year-old walk to the park, but at midnight I have no idea what he’s watching. So we completely slammed the front door shut and left the back door wide open. And a lot of us have experienced this.
You can’t give anything in your life 8 hours a day and not expect it to form and change you. Now, adults, this message is for you, not just as parents. Some of you will interpret this in your parenting, and you should, but this is for all of us. Anything you’re putting— investing that much time in is going to change you and form you, whether you know it or not, whether it’s your expectations or even something as minor as your attention span. This is a wild thing that’s happened to us.
If you go back to even 20 years, people will have found that you could watch a commercial, for instance, for 2 to 3 minutes back in the early 2000s. Do you know how long the average attention span is now? Not 2 and a half minutes, 47 seconds. So we’ve gone a third of what we once were just in 20 years. And part of that is this, we have been completely changed into this viewing pattern of, if I don’t like it, I can move it in a second.
And there, you’re hard-pressed to find any video anywhere that’s more than about 47 seconds. You know why? They know what they’re doing. They know what they’re doing.
This isn’t a new problem, friends. The goal of this message isn’t to make you sit there and go, well, I need to do better. I need to change. No, we need a better activity. I’ve found this to be true in my life, and I hope this helps you, just this little thought, that anything you’re trying to change and get over, the more time you spend going, I got to stop doing this.
I got to cut this out, the less power you seem to have to do it. But instead of that behavior, saying, this is not what I want to do anymore. I want to do this. What we really need in life is a better replacement. And so if I’m wasting so much of my life here, then what would it look like to spend it doing something valuable?
We need a better mission. We need a better entertainment. We need a better objective. And this isn’t a new problem. I’m going to recite this probably every week.
I love what the Apostle John writes to primarily the church of Ephesus here. He’s an old man, one of the last living apostles. And I love what he writes in 2 John 12. He says, though I have much to write to you, I would rather not use paper and ink. Instead, I hope to come to you and talk face to face so that our joy may be complete.
The sweet old man said to his people, I want to come see you because nothing beats that. Nothing beats— church, nothing beats us coming together face to face and speaking to one another and putting arms around and hugging one another and praising God together. You can’t beat it. This won’t compete well with that. And so that’s where we’re going to dig in today.
The answer, the answer is at the end of this message. There’s not— I’ll go ahead and tell you, I’ll go ahead and tell you good news. After we’re done, I’m not going to say, all right, let’s all march over here to the retention pond and throw our phones in this. I’m not going to do that. All right, that’s not the point of the message.
The point is that you would turn what is a time of distraction and waste into something where you can have authentic community with a God who loves you and a people who he’s formed for himself. There’s a better way, and I pray that we could find it together as we dig in today. In Paul’s second letter to Timothy, this is a very famous scripture, and here he’s given us really the first of several things that It means to have authentic community with God. Paul here urges his disciple Timothy to fully devote himself to the Scriptures he grew up on, and we can do so as well. We can devote ourselves to the Scriptures we have in front of us, to the spoken Word of God, and to the community of believers.
So let’s dig in. 2 Timothy chapter 3, just a handful of verses. Listen to this, church. It says, but as for you, continue in what you have learned and have firmly believed. Knowing from whom you learned it and how from childhood you have been acquainted with the sacred writings, which are able— hear this— able to make you wise for salvation through faith in Christ Jesus.
For all Scripture is breathed out by God and profitable for teaching, for reproof, for correction, and for training in righteousness, that the man of God may be complete, equipped for every good work. This is God’s Word, amen? This is good news to us today because there’s 3 really clear reasons that we can devote ourselves to the Word of God and that we will begin to build a relationship with God the Father that will last the span of all eternity. We’re building a relationship that has eternal value and it begins with our time in His Scripture and in prayer. So why do it?
Why be devoted to God’s Word? Well, here’s the first and maybe the only reason I need, but there are more, but here’s the first. Because it leads me to Christ. This book leads me to my Savior. It leads us to Christ.
Paul says plainly, as he’s closing out his argument to Timothy, where he’s been talking about the deception of our world, how there are many voices and there are all kinds of competing information, and some of it tickles the ears of others and they just want to chase what makes them feel good. And he says to Timothy, I want you to hang on to what you’ve been taught because this is truth and real life. And this other stuff, it might sound good, but it’s empty and it’s deceiving. So he says the only command of this whole text for today is continue in. I want you— this word could mean abide, rest.
I want you to hang here in the Scriptures you’ve been taught. And it’s beautiful the way he phrases it. I want you— that which you’ve learned, that which you firmly believed, knowing from whom you learned it. Who’s he learned it from? He’s talking specifically to Timothy.
He says, first of all, me and you have spent a great deal of time together. Don’t forget about the hard work we’ve done together in the Word of God. But even more than that, he says, you’ve known it from childhood. Childhood here in the Greek is the word brephos. It means infancy.
He’s saying you pretty much came out of the womb and started being taught the Holy Scriptures because Timothy has this beautiful luxury of a, of a mother and a grandmother who love the Lord. So like so many of us in the room, his father was a non-believer, but his mother and grandmother were believers. That’s a lot of stories I hear from people. Is that they had faithful mothers and grandmothers. I pray as a church we’ll have more and more faithful men and fathers.
It’s one of my great goals, uh, and one of our great problems in all of society. But nevertheless, Timothy here is raised up in the Lord by his mother and grandmother. Paul writes early in 2 Timothy chapter 1, he says, I’m reminded of your sincere faith, a faith that dwelt first in your grandmother Lois and in your mother Eunice, and now I am sure dwells in you as well. I love these names, man. These sound like Appalachian North Carolina kind of names.
These sound like the names I grew up with. Like, I, I had an Eddie Elizabeth and a, and a, and a Wilda. Lois and Eunice could have grown up right where I grew up, uh, up in like Bristol, Virginia, Roanoke, Virginia, those areas. I love these names. He says, I want to commend you that you had these faithful women that taught you the truth.
And what I want you to do is I want you to continue in it because there’s a lot of voices. Church, have y’all noticed there’s a whole lot of noise? There’s a lot of competing voices, and a lot of them are not in agreement with what you’re going to read here. You’re going to hear all kinds of different things, and nothing is new there. Paul said this— he says this is happening in the first century.
Church, it’s been happening since the beginning of time. That there’s the voice of God, true, authentic, loving, but also challenging, and then there’s man’s voice and the culture. And what will you listen to? Paul says, hey, I want you to stand firm in this, in the sacred writings that’ll make you wise for salvation. Cling to your faith in Christ Jesus.
Here’s what you’re going to find everywhere else. You’re going to find that the digital world, that, that your phone is very good at entertaining. I have no doubt as to why you and I struggle with this, because it’s stinking entertaining. For hours you’ll just go wham, wham, wham, and you’ll look at the clock finally and go, how long have I been here? What has happened?
And I would just urge you to consider this. The next time that that happens to you, think back as to what it is you actually remember or learned. Because you’ll find out, man, I can’t remember half of what I just watched. I think there was some stuff in there that made me laugh. I remember laughing.
There was some stuff in there about building a garden in my backyard because I got this whole DIY thing Instagram thinks I need to be watching because I keep watching them, and how to cook things. I feel like I learned something about cooking, but I can’t really place it.
And we spent hours and hours there with entertainment. Here’s what I’m convinced of, church, and this might be a hard pill to swallow, but I pray you can hear it. I think so much with the church, with especially the American church, that the evil one has discovered, I can’t really tempt them to do what is wrong or sinful in that. I’m having a hard time getting them to fall prey to that. But guess what I can make them fall prey to?
Distraction. I can so dull their senses that they become useless. Now that is very effective for the American. I’ll just dull you to anything important and entertain you rather than to stick to things that actually really matter. I think that’s his ploy.
I think that’s what’s going on here. We’ve been entertained to the point where we most of the time are doing some nonsense, but the Word of God reveals that the only real truth and the only thing that gives us life is in Christ Jesus. So the very place where we’re trying to find peace and comfort and rest. And most of the time when you’re vegging out like this, it’s because you’re just trying to rest and relax. And I get that, but you won’t find it there.
It’s just an endless, I got to do it again, I got to do it again, because it’s never, it’s never really satisfying. Jesus says this in John chapter 5. He says, you search the scriptures because you think that in them you have eternal life. And it is they that bear witness about me, yet you refuse to come to me that you may have life.
Oh, you’re searching everywhere. Here they’re searching the scriptures, but they’re not willing to say, there he is, the Messiah. We should see him on every page and recognize this is where I’m going to find true life, the peace, the joy, the rest I know some of you in the room, maybe all of you, have gone into your pantry at some point and grabbed like a family-sized bag of chips, and maybe you’re the first one to open it, and that’s a sweet moment, right? It’s like, because you know no one else’s grimy hands have been in there, you’re the first, and that’s exciting. And you tell yourself when you crack open that fresh bag of potato chips that you’re just going to eat a handful.
I’m just— I just need a little snack. And you’re going to have a few, and then 30 minutes to an hour goes by and the bag’s completely empty and you’re wondering what has happened to you because you don’t feel good about it. You’re covered in salt and grease and for some reason you don’t really know that you feel satisfied. You do know you feel thirsty now and a little like you’ve definitely made a mistake. And don’t dare look at the back of the bag after you’ve done something like that and go, wow, well, that was my daily portion of everything.
And it’s that very feeling you get— I’m thirsty, I’m not satisfied. This is the feeling that somehow we cannot recognize when we consume tons of content that we can neither remember nor can we do anything attainable with it. It’s just chips, just salt and science experiments.
And so do I. I struggle here too. Jesus says something very plainly. He says, man shall not live by bread alone. But by every word that comes from the mouth of God. Church, there’s no easy way to say this.
We have got to learn to have an appetite for the Almighty because we’re distracted. And the longer we linger there, the harder it gets. It doesn’t get easier. I, I just want to acknowledge— I want to acknowledge to you, I know this will be a challenge. I know it because so many of us have been have been numbed by distraction that we can’t even recognize that our attention span has shrunk to nothing.
Do you realize how discouraging it is to a person who preaches to hear that your attention span is 47 seconds? I’m so impressed with you right now. I see most of your eyeballs. Amazing. I’m doing my best to try to keep you alive right now, but you’ve given me more than 47 seconds.
You should give yourself a hand, just a hand just inside, like, good job, me. But when it comes to the Word of God, I know something is true. And but rather than dodge it, let’s come to that truth and say, all right, what am I going to do about it? If this is the words of life, if God the Creator who loves me and made me and died for me wrote this for me, and this is going to feed me, I must have it. But it’s hard to do because my habits are so bad.
I don’t have any habits of reading, period, Jonathan. In fact, most of the input I get comes through my eyes digitally like this.
I want to just tell you, there’s some things you, you’ve just got to push yourself. You’ve got to push yourself to say, all right, this is what I want, this is what I need. I believe that the Word of God will feed me. I believe that time and prayer with Christ would change my life. I believe it.
What am I going to do about it? It means I’m going to do little simple things to start. Some of you, every single morning this thing goes off and wakes you up, and the first thing you do is, all right, what’s going on in the world? Might I suggest to you, turn your alarm off, get up, and leave it, and go in the other room. And I know some of you need your morning coffee, I’ll give you that.
I kind of do too. Make you a little pot of coffee, Go into the other room without this, without computers, not but an analog— boy, we’re about to go, we’re about to go first century on this mug in my living room today— not but a drink and a book. Start with 10 minutes, see what happens. Start with 15. 15 will become 30.
You’ll start recognizing, wow, it’s quiet. You’ll recognize how quiet the world is after a while, stuff like that. But my kids are going to pop up right away, Jonathan. Well, you got to get up a little earlier.
I need 15 more minutes. I got to get up earlier than them. It’s discipline and it’s a challenge, but it’s worth it. It’s life. Imagine saying to yourself, well, I got to get up 15 minutes earlier because if I don’t, I won’t be able to eat today.
All of you would get up 15 minutes earlier, I guarantee you, because otherwise I don’t get to eat today. It’s like that though, friend. It’s like that and more. But Jonathan, I like to listen to the Bible on this. Okay, cool.
What happens when it dings with that notification that you just got an email or someone texted you? I’m not listening anymore. Now I’m on Instagram. Well, how did I get here? Don’t take it.
Time to start reading again, friends.
I don’t like this sermon. I didn’t like it this week writing it either. It was hard on me. I had to delete— I deleted 2 apps this week. I think more have got to go.
It wasn’t enough. Some of you like, I don’t, I don’t know about this. I just pray the Lord will challenge you where you need challenged. That’s between you and him. Ask yourself, what is receiving the first attention of mine every day?
Who’s getting number one? I bet it ain’t Him. Who’s getting number one? Who’s getting the most? We’re talking not only is this priority, but it’s majority, and it’s not God.
It’s not even your family.
That’s number one. It’s like, oh, there’s 2 more of these? Yeah, there’s 2 more of these. It points us to Jesus. That’s incredible.
Here’s another incredible thing, that we can be devoted to God’s Word because it speaks with God’s authority. We live in a world where we’re hearing competing voices. Let’s be honest, we don’t know who’s telling us the truth anymore. We don’t know who’s talking truth about medicine, about politics, about world affairs. We get 2 different voices, if not 10.
We, we hear— I mean, you just go there for a little while, you’ll find out that cancer is caused by 33 things. From parasites to the way you eat, from who knows what’s killing us. I’m happy that there’s a source of life, that this is God’s authoritative Word. It doesn’t always feel good. Sometimes it pushes you to think and realize things about yourself that need change.
It’s called repentance. It’s important we go there. It speaks with God’s authority. This is verse 16, one of the most powerful scriptures in all of Scripture. It says, Scripture is breathed out by God.
Now let me ask you something. When he says all Scripture, is he talking about your Bible? Well, yes, that is true, but at the point when Paul is writing, the Old Testament is the only thing written. So before you start going through life saying, I’m only going to read the New Testament, just know that’s not how Paul thought. That’s not how the writers of the New Testament thought.
They said the Scriptures, which at this time were Old Testament Scriptures, they said these is God’s very breath. And useful, profitable for all kinds of living. So friends, church friends, we need to be in the word of God from Genesis to Revelation because he says it is the very breath. This word is theopneustos. Theos is the word for God.
Pneuma means breath or wind or spirit. He said it is God’s very to you.
Amazing. It’s His very words on the page to you, and it’s profitable for so many things. I just want to, in this moment, I want to encourage you with something because there’s— I know there’s some people in the room that they have no habit of this. I don’t want you to walk out of here feeling ashamed or under some kind of burden you can’t manage.
I’m encouraging you, what if you started with 10 minutes tomorrow— today? And don’t start in the book of Leviticus. Let me just do— let me tell you a favor. If you’ve never read this at all, don’t start there. First of all, it’s not the first book anyway.
What are you doing there? This is a book that is comprised of 66 unique books, and there are better starting places than others when it comes to someone who is new to the faith or new to a discipline. Don’t start in Leviticus. Genesis is not a terrible starting point, but it gets challenging the deeper you get into it. So I would just say this to you, if you’re new to this habit, based on what you want to learn more of, I’ll give you a couple of suggestions.
Perhaps today you’re thinking, I want to know more about this Jesus who I’ve given myself to, that I’ve placed my faith in. I want to start with Jesus. I would recommend that to you too. Start with Him. Where do I start for that?
Well, any of the 4 Gospels will work. I would recommend John. You don’t have a habit of Bible study? Let’s start in John chapter 1, read John. John’s incredible.
And John also, just for you baby ducks in the room, he writes on the lowest Greek level of all of the disciples. He’s just a sweet old fisherman writing a story for you. John is a great read and speaks of the divinity of Christ closer than any of the others. So read John. I want to know more about Jesus.
Maybe you’re thinking, I want to know more about how to live rightly. I want to— I want to— I need help with my tongue. I, I, I constantly curse, or I, I have— I don’t have control of this, or the way I think, I need some help. Might I recommend to you the book of James? The book of James is incredible.
He comes right out of the gate and just starts slapping people, like, and it slaps me every time I read it again. Just a few chapters for Christian living. Great, outstanding. I just, I want to work on my worship. I just don’t feel like I’m a worshiper.
I don’t feel like I’m really giving my heart to God. Would you consider reading a psalm every day? There’s this beautiful thing, there’s like 150-some psalms, there’s a ton of psalms. You can read, you know, you could read 1 to 5 of those every day and every month you’d read the whole book of Psalms. They’re just beautiful, and they’ll get your heart in a place of worship.
I want more wisdom. Might you go to the Proverbs? God was so favorable there, he made 31 of those so you can read one a day. On the 31-day months, you’ll perfect it. I hope you can hear this and start a new habit that begins to give you life, and then later on you’ll go to Leviticus and go, There’s some crazy cool stuff going on here.
There’s laws and it makes sense because now that I understand Jesus, I know what He was doing. I know the sacrificial system. It all mattered.
It speaks with authority. Here Paul writes to Timothy and says it’s profitable. It’s advantageous for 4 things. And these aren’t just like he broke out the thesaurus and tries to get it right. No, these are 4 specific words for a reason.
He says, teaching, reproof, correction, training. Teaching is the idea that when you get in this Good Book, you will find out what is right. Reproof is the idea that when you get in this Good Book, you will find out where you are wrong. Correction is the idea that it will show you, okay, this is right, you were wrong, here’s how you get on the correct path. That’s correction.
And then lastly, training is, all right, now that you’re on the correct path, here’s how you stay in it. You know, God’s desire for you is not that you would live in your sin or be broken by it, but that you would come up out of it and walk with Him forever and no longer be given over to things that were destroying your life.
God’s Word is more powerful than any algorithm, than anything else you can get into. Those things just tell you what you want to hear. This tells you what you need to hear. Hebrews 4 says, the Word of God is living and active. Sharper than any two-edged sword, piercing to the division of soul and spirit, joints and marrow, discerning the thoughts and intentions of the heart.
It’s like the tale of 2 friends, if I could just use this as a picture. I know I’ve talked some about this in church before, but most of you in the room, if not all of you in the room, have 2 types of friends. You’ve got those friends that will tell you what you want to hear and the friends that will tell you what you need to hear. They both can be good friends, but one of them has a little more integrity than the other. There’s those friends you call up because you just want to vent and they’re going to say, you’re great.
You’re going to say, you wouldn’t believe what he said to me, what she said to me, what, what, what my boss said to me. You wouldn’t believe what I’m going through. And that friend will say, how could they ever treat you like that? You’re just a perfect person and you’re beautiful and everything goes right in your Sometimes you want to hear that, friend. That’s kind of like calling— at least for me, it’s like calling up my mom.
My mom’s gonna say, I just can’t imagine anybody would ever mistreat you, Jonathan. You’re just so— you’re just the best. I know my mom is definitely lying to me, but I think she really believes it because she loves me to that kind of crazy level, right? Some of you have that kind of friend, but you have that other friend where you call them up and say, hey, I had a spat with my spouse and listen to what they said to me. That friend will look at you in the face and say, what did you say first?
What was your response? What caused all this? Rather than say, oh, I can’t believe he would say that. No, no, this friend says, yeah, I bet you had a part to play.
This friend is entertaining, and I’m not saying— don’t take this illustration to its nth degree and say, well, I got to dump all those friends. It’s okay to have a few friends that pat you on the back and say, it’s going to be okay, buddy. It’s okay to have some of those friends, but the Word of God is not that friend. The Word of God is this friend that really loves you and has real integrity, that comes beside you and says, hey, I love you. I died for you, but you, you need to straighten up because you’re not a perfect wife.
You’re not a perfect husband. You’re not a perfect father. You’re not a perfect worker. Now, I am those things, and my word will reveal those things to you, but you got to be in there. So don’t just keep checking in with this friend over here that goes, oh, this thing just knows everything I like.
No, I need to check in with this thing that tells me everything I need. Because otherwise I’m just going to flounder. I’m going to be this same person. Because in your heart, don’t you know there are areas where you want to grow, you want to mature? I want to be a better man.
I want to be a better person, a better father, a better husband. I want to be— I want to be more than this. It’s got to be more to this. I won’t find it over here with this friend. I need to be challenged.
So here’s the diagnostic: when was the last time your Bible told you something you didn’t want to hear?
If it’s recent, then you’re in the right place. Keep digging. If it’s been a long time, I imagine it’s been a long time since you spent time there because for me it’s at least weekly that I go, oof, good grief, because I ask a question of the text every time that I would encourage you to do. Every time I’m in the reading, even if I’m in like Joel or Amos or some minor prophet that is definitely about a specific time in history, I’m coming to it saying, Lord, help me to see see what I need to learn here and where I need to change. Where do I need to repent after reading Amos?
And what I find almost every time is I’m not the hero of these stories. I’m the knucklehead that’s getting it wrong. I’m not King David, and nor are you. I’m Saul.
I’m not, I’m not John, who most of the time is like, oh, well, I’m Peter. Who puts his whole foot in his mouth all throughout the Gospels? I’m Peter. And I’m not even that good most of the time. Sometimes I’m Judas.
You pray like that, you come to the Bible like that, and it’ll affect and change you in a powerful way. So it speaks with authority. It draws me to Christ Jesus and it speaks with authority. And then lastly, it equips me for good work. This is the endgame.
This is the end state, if you will, of what it means to walk in Jesus. This chapter ends with verse 17 saying that you would be complete, equipped for every good work. It equips us for the work of God. Complete is the idea of perfected or finished, that the more time we spend here, he has so fitted us for battle that we’re fully furnished, that we’re fully ready to go. This is how the faith is tested.
Friends, it’s hard for us when we look at your life and you say, I’m a Christian, but we see no evidence of that. It’s difficult, difficult for us to have confidence. It’s difficult for us to know because the Word of God says faith should produce work. Faith, in fact, should fully equip you. That time spent in the Word of God will equip you to do what is good.
And so when you primarily do what is evil, it’s very confusing to know what’s going on in your heart. Paul says to Timothy, his disciple, I want you to sow, immerse yourself, and spend time with your Holy Father that it begins to produce good work in you. What kind of good work, might you argue? Well, I’ll tell you, there’s a lot of good work. There’s a lot of good work.
You might be thinking immediately like, okay, are we talking about serving the poor and the needy? Okay, sure, that’s good. I don’t think that’s primarily what he’s talking about. I’m talking about the more intrinsic stuff, like I want to be a good dad. You know who the ultimate great dad is?
God the Father. You want to know who the best husband is? Oh, it’s Jesus. So we’re— if we’re talking about good work, it’s the stuff you want to be great at, and He’s ready to equip you for that. James, when he writes on this, James chapter 1, he says, I want you to be doers of the Word and not hearers only and so deceive yourselves.
That you would read it and go, mm, that was nice. And do nothing with it. Oh, I think I should be— I mean, it’ll push you at times where you go into work and say, I need to stop treating my coworkers like I’m treating them. And you might think that and go, eh, not today. I can’t do it today.
I was going to do it today until I had that trip to work, which got my head all in a bad place. I was going to do that today until I walked in and Sally said that to me. I knew she was going to say that to me.
Be doers of the word, not hearers only. This isn’t about convenient obedience.
It’s real obedience that loves God and wants to honor him, not out of a sense of I need, but out of a sense of I want to spend time with the holy God. Paul writes to the Ephesians He says, you’re His workmanship, created in Christ Jesus for good works, which God prepared beforehand that you should walk in them. One of the things I did in my past was I was a chaplain in the Army for a season of my life, and one thing that still— I shouldn’t say still, it really doesn’t bother me anymore, but there was a season of my life where I was a bit bothered that I did all of that training and all of that equipping and I never got to deploy. Some of you might be thinking, why would you want to deploy? I’m not saying I wanted to deploy, but I never really got to put to test everything that I learned and trained for.
And God had his infinite provision. He desired for me what he desired, but I never deployed. And I always felt like to some degree, I really helped a lot of people in my time of service, but I would’ve liked to have known what it would’ve been like to really serve in that role overseas. But it reminded me of this idea that so many of us as Christians, we’ve done a lot of training, there’s been a lot of equipping. Hopefully this moment right now is equipping.
You’re wrestling with the things of God, and maybe you go to Bible studies at times, maybe you have in your past, maybe you’ve spent time with other believers trying to learn, and there’s been some equipping. But you also might feel as soldiers would feel who did all that training but never used it. It would be weird, in fact, if we had a whole military of well-trained soldiers, and we do, but it would be weird if they had done all of the hard work of qualifying on their weapons and getting all of their gear ready to go, the parachutes for those who jump and all the battle dress, and that all the vehicles were maintained and all the tanks and all the Bradleys and all of it was ready to go. And they did all of that hard work, and then war breaks out in the world. And all of them stay in the barracks.
That would be weird. And we would be, whether we like it or not, we would probably be calling them cowards. You’ve done all of this work to prepare for the very thing that has now happened, and you don’t leave the barracks.
And yet that’s how we so often are.
Perhaps we’re in there, we’re in prayer, we’re putting some of this stuff in us, But we don’t do verse 17, equipped for good work, not for just the kicks. Paul doesn’t say, I want you to be equipped for kicks and giggles. No, equipped for good work. Put it into action. You devote yourself to God’s Word, do it fully, not merely in hearing it and reading it and studying it, but by doing it.
That your joy may be complete, that you might be equipped for every good work. So who needs to hear you talk about this? Who needs to see you have life change? Who needs comfort? Who needs a friend?
Where can you put this into action? And as we close right now, I just want to— I pray you will remember these 3 things: that the reason that we can devote ourselves to the Word of God is because it draws us to our Savior. It’s authoritative on our lives, and it equips us to actually do something in life with it. But as I said at the beginning, I pray you can hear this. Some of you have been thinking ever since I led with this, do I really spend 7 hours a day in front of screens?
Whether you do or you don’t, I want to give you a better— I pray you have heard today a better way. That rather than think, man, am I— I need to change, I need to do better, I need to stop doing this. Instead think, when is the last time I just spent quality time with God? What can I do about that? What would it look like for me to begin to start praying, God, would you build such an appetite in me for you that I would long for you first thing in the morning?
I’m going to make this discipline, Lord, between me and you. I’m going to make this decision. I’m going to start my day with you, that at a bare minimum, you might see that I’m giving you first. You’re getting first. And I’m going to spend that time without distraction.
Little bitty incremental changes like that, where I start praying different and thinking different, that God’s Word might fill me fully.
Because at the end of the day, what we really need in this life is Christ. He’s the only place of peace and of joy, of fulfillment. That thing you really long for, it’s only in one area. It’s in Christ Jesus. That book that I recommended to you, that book of John, it begins like this.
Chapter 1, verse 1, it says, in the beginning was the Word, and the Word was with God, and the Word was God, and the Word became flesh. And dwelt among us. Later in the book of John chapter 1, it became flesh and dwelt among us. He spoke it, then he lived it. Guess what?
He’s alive and active today. There’s an empty grave. We serve a Savior who’s alive and well and active in your life. Would you invite him in? Let’s pray now together, church.
Heavenly Father, we ask that for those believers in the room that You would give us an appetite for You.
Lord, I don’t know how else to say it other than would You make us have a longing that can only be filled by You? That the areas in which we’re distracted, whether it’s screen time, whether it’s something else, the areas— maybe it’s a hobby, something that takes our mind and numbs it rather than drives it towards You, Would you, would you do something in our heart this morning that would cause us to long for you more than anything else? God, would you do something incredible this week? I don’t know how else to ask this, Lord, other than just boldly ask. God, would you— when I read my word this week, would you speak?
Would you reveal yourself? Let it be a sweet moment for that person in the room who’s never, maybe never had a habit of this or has really fallen out any habit of spending time with you in prayer and in Bible. Lord, would you show up in a powerful way that the words might jump off the page to them and they go, oh my goodness, you’re talking to me today. God, would you do that? Please do it in me.
Do it in your church. Lord, let that word so saturate us that later on when we’re having a conversation with a coworker, later on when we’re, we’re trying to parent or trying to be a good spouse, or later on, Lord, That, that word would come popping back up into our minds and go, oh, that’s why I read that. It’s for this moment. God, would you do those miraculous things in us? Would you feed your people in true life, true peace, true joy, that they might see this maybe for the first time and go, oh, I get it.
This is the authentic community I’ve been looking for, first with the Lord and then with my my brothers and sisters in faith.
Lord, for that person who’s come in today, I pray right now you would draw them to yourself. You know who you are today if you’ve come in this place, and all this sounds kind of sweet and everything, but you know good and well that you don’t have a relationship with Jesus at all. So the idea of walking with him and spending time with him in his word and in prayer sounds Strange, and rightfully so, my friend. But I pray today the Holy Spirit is drawing you towards Himself, that you’re feeling a desire to, to have faith and profess belief. Friend, today’s the day to do it.
Don’t put it off another moment. The Word of God says if we confess with our mouth that Jesus is Lord and believe in our heart that God raised Him from the dead, we will be saved. That opportunity is in front of you as a sweet gift. Would you open it with me today in prayer? Say this with me if you’re ready.
Dear Lord Jesus, I believe today that you died on the cross for my sin, that you rose from the grave to conquer death for me. Thank you for that great gift. I believe it today that you died and raised for me, that you’ve paid for my— all my iniquities, and that now I can walk in eternity with you. Jesus, I ask now, would you guide me in life that I might hunger for you? Would you give me an appetite to spend time with you like a dear friend, that I would long to spend time with you?
Dear friend, welcome to the family of God if you prayed that. And all of us would pray along with you. God, help us to have a longing for you that can only be filled by time spent with our Creator. We love you, Lord Jesus. We pray all this in your name.
Amen.
You can text a friend in seconds, video chat with family across the country, and scroll through hundreds of updates before breakfast. And yet so many of us feel isolated, distracted, and hungry for something deeper.
Our theme verse comes from the apostle John, who understood something about the limits of long-distance communication: “Though I have much to write to you, I would rather not use paper and ink. Instead I hope to come to you and talk face to face, so that our joy may be complete” (2 John 12).
Even John knew: some things can only happen face to face.
