A Counter-Cultural Life
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Well, good morning church. Hope you’re all doing well today. I’m doing really well. I get to preach. That’s exciting.
Well, we’re continuing our series called Built Different. And this is a term in our culture used to describe someone who’s a little abnormal. They have a different commitment level, a different attitude, a different level of devotion to something. And we’re like that person’s built different. And so for Christians, for us, we want to be built different in Christ.
Not through self effort, but, but we want to have a different attitude in Christ, a different commitment level in Christ, a different kind of devotion in Christ. So that’s what the series is about. How can we live different, be built different in Christ? And so today we’re going to be looking at a countercultural life. Our series text is Romans 12:1 2 and it reads like this.
I appeal to you therefore brothers, by the mercies of God, to present your bodies as a living sacrifice, holy and acceptable to God, which is your spiritual worship. Do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewal of your mind that by testing you may discern what is the will of God, what is good and acceptable and perfect. And today we’re focusing in on this concept. Do not be conformed to this world and church. Have you realized how easy it is to drift, drift back into that old self, into the old way of the world?
No one has to teach us how to do this. And no one accidentally becomes more Christ. Like, it’s not like you got up this morning, were like, you know what? Today I’m holy, done. Here we go.
Today I’m just going to pray without ceasing. And now it’s like I’m praying even now. I’m not distracted at all at church, I’m praying even now. No one, no one just wakes up more Christ. Like we actually get this through a level of intentionality, not through self effort, but through Holy Spirit reliance.
But we naturally fit into this mold. Being selfish, craving comfort, seeking others, approval, chasing success, whatever it is. This mold that we used to live in, the mold that the world would love us to fit back into. You know, parents tell me pretty often children are born with a very self determined point of view. I do it my way, I do it myself.
Some of the first words they speak, they all want to do it themselves. And this is the mentality of the world. We’ll do it our way, not God’s way. But here’s the problem. That mold, that conformity always over promises and under delivers it promises you Freedom, but it keeps you enslaved.
It promises you significance, but it will leave you feeling empty. It promises satisfaction, but it will never satisfy. This is the problem. God has a solution. God has something significantly better for you and for I.
He created you for Himself, and through Christ he redeemed you and he bought you for Himself. And so today we’re going to be looking in this. And as we turn in our text this morning, we’ll be in First Peter, chapter one. If you want to go ahead and turn there, I’ll be reading from the esv. We’ll see this.
As Christians, we don’t live differently to become God’s people. We live differently because we are God’s people. We belong to a different king. We have a different kind of hope. In First Peter, chapter 1, the apostle Peter wrote to Christians living as exiles throughout Asia Minor, exhorting them to live differently in this world because they belong to God through Jesus Christ.
And we too can live differently in this world because we belong to God through salvation in Jesus. What does a countercultural life look like for those who belong to Christ? Today’s text will give us three marks of a countercultural life for those who belong to Christ. So let’s read his word. First Peter 1, starting at verse 13, says this.
Therefore, preparing your minds for action and being sober minded, set your hope fully on the grace that will be brought to you at the revelation of Jesus Christ. As obedient children, do not be conformed to the passions of your former ignorance. But as he who called you is holy, you also be holy in all of your conduct. Since it is written, you shall be holy. For I am holy.
And if you call on him who is Father, as Father who judges impartially according to each one’s deeds, conduct yourselves with fear throughout the time of your exile, knowing that you were ransomed from the futile ways inherited from your forefathers, not with perishable things such as silver and gold, but with the precious blood of Christ, like that of a lamb without blemish or spot. This is God’s word. Amen. Three marks of a countercultural life in Christ Jesus. The first is a life that sets its hope on Christ.
Peter concludes his introduction to the Christians in Asia Minor with instructions to live for Christ and not this world. He’s commanding them. A mindset shift. He doesn’t just say, hey guys, I know things are rough right now. Do better.
No, he commands them. Hope better. Have a better hope when we see the Word. Therefore, I know you are good Bible students here at East Gate, church. You have to ask, what’s it there for?
Before I could even get the words out, someone first so was like, what’s there for it? I was like, all right, nice, yeah. We have to ask what it’s there for. The apostle Peter, he’s talking with Christians dispersed in Asia Minor, modern day Turkey, and that they have a living hope in Jesus Christ, who’s resurrected from the grave. An eternal inheritance that the world can’t touch.
The world wants us to have no hope. The world wants us to despair, to not go the way God wants us, but to go the way it goes, into nothing. But we have a hope that can’t be touched, it can’t be taken from us. We can’t be robbed of this hope. It’s sure, because because of this, he calls into action.
He says in verse 13, preparing your minds for action. And this word preparing is kind of funny to me. It means to gird up your loins. It’s like, that’s kind of a funny thing to say. Back then you’d be wearing some long garb in the desert and let’s say something of action needed to take place.
You’re about to be attacked, you need to do some work. Something has to happen. You would hike it up a little. You tie it around your waist with maybe a rope or just tie it. And now you’re prepared for action, right?
You gotta attack. Now you can attack. You’re not hindered by long robes. You have to do some work. You have to run from a bear or something, I don’t know.
Now you can, you can gird up them loins. And so Peter applies this to the Christian life. Spiritually, he says, preparing your minds for action, the facility of your understanding, your feelings, your desires. Prepare your desires for action. And in what manner?
He says, be sober minded, be calm, be in control, be focused, not sporadic, not. Oh, this is my knee jerk reaction. They made me angry, now I’m angry. I doom scrolled and now I’m ticked off at the world. Meh.
No, no, no, no. Prepare your minds for action. Be sober minded, be intentional, calm, focused, and set your hope fully on the grace set. Your hope is to wait for the fullness of salvation with joy and confidence. It’s coming, it’s sure it’s coming.
To hope in receiving something. Have you ever met someone? Or maybe you’ve been in a moment in your life, maybe you’re there now, no hope, no hope. It’s a lack of motivation. There just seems to be a wall.
What do I do? Where do I go? It seems hopeless. Or maybe you’ve been a little half hope in it. A little half hope in Jesus.
A little half hope in something else. A little half and half hope. But Peter writes, set your hope fully on the grace that will come through Jesus Christ fully. He’s not looking for half hopers. He’s looking for your full hope at the grace that will come.
So grace is unmerited favor. And you might be thinking, josh, I already received this grace. I already received the promises saved by grace through faith. But there is so much more to come at the second coming of Jesus Christ. And when he comes, he brings with him the fullness of our salvation.
New bodies. Some of us can’t wait for that. You’re like, yeah, new heavens, new earth. But most importantly, his eternal presence forever and ever. And all the former ways will be gone.
The worst day of your life will not even be worth comparing to this great day when he returns. The best day of your life will be outmoded. It’ll be outdone and outshone by this day when Jesus returns at the revelation of Jesus Christ, the physical appearing of Jesus again in this world. He’s not simply commanding us to think positively. Peter’s not saying, hey, there’s a lot of rough things going on.
Think half class full. No, what he’s commanding us is to have a future oriented faith. Where’s your hope? Where’s your faith? Is it in Christ?
He’s coming again. Let’s explore that a little. The more we set our hope on the reward in Christ’s return, the more ready we will be for it. Hebrews 9:28 says so Christ having been offered once to bear the sins of many, will appear a second time. Not to deal with sin, but to save those who are eagerly waiting for him.
Are you eagerly waiting for Jesus? Are you pumped up about this man, this world? You know, if you walk with Christ for any amount of time, like man, I can’t wait for this day. Eagerly waiting for his return. This is the source of your great hope.
1 Thessalonians 4 says this. For the Lord himself will descend from heaven with a cry of command, with the voice of an archangel and with the sound of the trumpet of God. And the dead in Christ will rise first. Then we who are alive, who are left, will be called up together with them in the clouds to meet the Lord in the air. And so we will always be with the Lord.
Therefore, check this out. Encourage one another with these words.
Christian. You ever feel discouraged? Maybe the thing we need to remind each other more often of is Jesus is coming again. And this is significant.
In the early church, the church was going through some things, maybe some people, they even led to faith. They now see imprisoned for their faith, beaten, mocked, outcast, or maybe even martyred for their faith. And Paul in First Thessalonians, he’s saying, hey, those who have died in Christ, they’re going to raise up again. We’re going to see them again. And we who are still alive, we’re going to meet them.
But the best part of all is who we’re all gathering around the Lord and in that text, and so we will always be with the Lord. Like I said, that worst day and best day of your life won’t even be in our minds when this day comes. This is our hope and it cannot be taken.
Imagine this. Jesus could have ended canonical scripture with any words he chose. Hey, y’, all, stop being foolish. You’d be like, yeah, that’s a good way to end. Said, stop.
Stop being angry all the time. Like, yeah, stop putting your hope in false things. Yeah, yeah. How does Jesus. What final words does Jesus, our Lord and Savior, choose to give us?
At the end of Scripture, Revelation 22 through 20 through 21 says this. He who testifies to these things says, surely I am coming soon. Amen. Come, Lord Jesus. The grace of the Lord Jesus be with all.
Amen. That’s what a good friend does, isn’t it? How do you say farewell to your friends? It’s like, never see you again. It’s like, oh, okay, misread this relationship.
No. When I hang out with my friends, we watch a movie. We hang out. I say, see you. See you soon, God willing.
This hopeful expectation that we’re going to be reunited, we’re going to see each other again. I haven’t abandoned you. We’re not friends no longer. This is what Jesus chooses to do with us. It’s like one last little final encouragement.
Surely I’m coming again. See you soon. We’ll be reunited with him. He hasn’t abandoned us. Why?
You know, back in the day, there used to be this thing called company. You had company. People would just show up at your house. It’s a foreign concept.
And I’m assuming houses had to be held up a little tidier back in the day because you didn’t know who was going to show up at that door. They knocked. Who is it? Oh, in the neighborhood. It’s like, all right, come in.
We have company. And suddenly the whole family’s interacting with this person. And so why are you cleaning? Why are you preparing? Oh, we’re having guests later.
This hopeful expectation. Hey, people are coming over. Let’s get the house ready.
Hey, why you live like that? Didn’t you know? Jesus is coming back. A hopeful expectation. Your hope determines your habits.
If you don’t think anyone’s coming over, you might not pick up that dirty laundry. But if you’re like man, people might show up here, might have company later, maybe keep the house a little tidier. You see this? What future do you think will make you happy? Here’s another way to think about it.
What are you waiting on before you can finally say, then I’ll have joy, then I’ll be satisfied. A hope. What are you putting your hope in? Maybe it’s a promotion. Maybe you want to provide more for your family.
And a promotion would do a whole lot of good right now. That’s not a bad thing. Maybe it’s marriage. You want to have a God glorifying marriage. It’s not a bad thing.
Maybe it’s children, retirement, better health, financial freedom, the next vacation, buying a home. What are you putting hope in? These aren’t necessarily bad things. But here’s the problem. They make terrible saviors.
They make terrible lords. Parents with children, you know, your children, they make terrible lords, little tyrants. And they know it. They’ll take you. They’ll take over.
No, not half hope. Not a diminished hope of Christ. No, put your hope fully on Christ. Your hope determines your habits. Are you hoping in him?
Are you preparing for his return? The second way we live, a countercultural life in Christ is a life that reflects the holiness of God. A life that reflects the holiness of God. Peter exhorted these early Christians to live holy lives not through self driven moral effort, but by reflecting the character of their Father as his obedient children. So here in verse 14, it says, as obedient children do not be conformed.
So as obedient children, obedient means submissive. Hey, God, your way, not my way, not rebellious children. Who we read, we read in His Word and we’re like, well, I think I’ll skip these pages. And that doesn’t really apply. And you know, I’ll pick and choose.
I’ll pick and choose. No obedient children, submissive children.
And how as obedient children do not be conformed to the passions of your former ignorance. Here’s that word conformed again. This is like a blueprint. So what was your life built on previously? The former blueprint, the former way of your life, what did it lead you to?
It led you to nothing. And he says, don’t be conformed back to that way. The way you used to talk, the way you used to think, the way you used to live, of your passions, your desires, your cravings, often lusts, things leading away from the will of God. Don’t be conformed to that. And of your former ignorance.
This is where we get the word agnostic. It’s agnoia in the Greek. Your former ignorance, you didn’t know any better. You lacked knowledge. But Christians, we do know better.
We do know better. We have a God. He’s holy. We know better. And this isn’t just some kind of intellectual agreement of doctrine, like, of course we should believe the right things.
We should have good doctrine. Very important. But this isn’t merely that. No. This is a new birth.
This is a transformed life through a new birth and a new identity as obedient children. You’re God’s children, So be holy. And in verse 14 or 15, rather, he says, he who called you, he’s inviting you believers, he’s calling you first. Peter 2. 9 says this in the chapter next.
But you are a chosen race, a royal priesthood, a holy nation, a people for his own possession, that you may proclaim the excellencies of him who called you out of darkness into his marvelous light. And so we’re not to be conformed back to the darkness, back to the former ways of living. We are to be transformed by his grace, through his spirit. Live in the life and be holy. Verse 15.
To be holy here is to be pure, sinless, upright, a saint, something sacred. Be holy. Now, if you were to close your eyes right now and imagine a holy man, I get quite an image in my head. I think of them monks, long, those brown robes, some weird rope, crazy haircut, you know, swinging some incense, chanting something cool. It’s a monk.
Is that what we’re supposed to be? Is that holiness? Living up in some mountain church? Let’s just gather, let’s go buy some thing, some land, and we’ll just all be holy together. Holy, holy, holy.
No, no. He says, be holy in all your conduct. Where you’re at right now, the things you say, the work you put your hands to in all your conduct, in these things, be holy. The KJV translates this to say in your manner of conversation, from the words you speak to the work you do in it all, be holy. Holy.
Be different as God is. Verse 16 says this. You shall be holy, for I am holy.
Peter quotes Leviticus 19:2, you shall be holy. For I, the Lord, Yahweh, your God, am holy. And this call is to be holy in response to God because he himself is holy. And I just want to pause and think about how crazy this is. How crazy is this, Leviticus?
God is going through listing, hey, this be holy and this be set apart. And this, you have to do it this way. And by the way, people, Israelites, you be holy as I am holy. I am holy. They had seen God do some pretty miraculous things.
They saw him defeat the superpower of their time. Egypt humiliate pagan gods, decimate cities. They saw his wrath poured out. And he’s telling them, be holy as I am holy, for I am holy.
This is crazy. This is impossible. Unless you know God.
Holiness then is not some random moral effort. It’s a covenant relationship. It’s a covenant reflection. Because I know God, therefore I can be holy, for he is holy. God says, I’m not like those pagan gods.
I’m holy. So you believer, you’re not like those pagan people. You be holy.
The more we know God, the more we begin to reflect God. The more time we spend with God, the more we reflect his holiness. Acts 4:13 says this. Now, when they saw the boldness of Peter and John and perceived that they were uneducated, common men, they were astonished. And they recognized that they had been with Jesus.
Man, who you been around? Did you know that the people you hang around, you kind of pick up traits that they have, too. Gotta be careful who you spend time around. When I was being trained by Pastor Gary and Pastor Jonathan and preaching and sitting with them in study, Pastor Gary looked at me and was like, josh, you have a good tone about you. You don’t sound Southern.
My parents are from New York. You don’t sound like that. You got a good tone about you. I was like, yeah, sweet. That’s cool.
Well, when I got my license back in high school, I was like, I’m gonna go to the convenience store, buy a little Coke. I like Coca Cola. Beep. I was like, thanks. Have a good day.
And the guy was like, gargling marbles. He was like, where you from? I was like, he’s like, you from here? No. Or, yes, I am, actually.
I was born here. I was raised here. He was like, you’re not from Patchogue, New York. I was like, my dad is. I’ve never lived in New York.
But it was simply because I had spent time around my parents, around my father, that apparently I have a very specific Location, accent left in me.
Isn’t that crazy? That’s wild. And this dude who’s mega Southern, he. He called me out. He knew you’re not from here.
It’s like, I am from here. I’m one of you.
But it wasn’t on purpose. It’s not like I tried. It was simply because I spent time with my father. With my parents. I had their accent.
When you spend time with the Father, can people tell? Do you have a heavenly accent? Have you spent enough time with the Father in the Word? And people are like, man, you talk a little different, you hope a little different. Have you prayed with the Father?
Have you spent time with Him? Do you have the Father’s accent in your life? Spend time with him if you want to be holy. It’s not the self effort, gotta pop a vein thing. It’s who you spend time with.
Spend time with the Father. Before Peter tells us to be holy, he reminds us that we have already been called by a holy God. Holiness isn’t our attempt to become God’s children. No, it’s actually a product, because we already are God’s children.
Have you heard his call? Have you received his salvation? You know this is me. This is not an exhaustive list, but I believe there are two things you need to be holy. Just two.
The first thing you need is to know God. Here’s the problem. To know God relationally, He accepts nothing less than perfection. And you and I are not perfect. We sin.
We miss the mark. And what’s the mark? Perfection. We lie, we steal, we cheat, we’re sinners. And so can dirty things.
Can sinners make something clean and holy? No. So are we hopeless? No, we talked about that a second ago. We have hope.
What is our hope if we can’t fix ourselves? God intervenes. And he says. He says this. He tells us the truth.
The wages of sin is death. Everything you’ve worked for in life, in your own effort, has been to earn the wage of death. But the free gift of God is eternal life through Christ Jesus. And so he sent his only son, Jesus, who lived in perfect obedience to the Father. He was holy.
He lived the life you and I couldn’t live. And then he saw our wage, our death penalty. And he said, I’ll bear it for you. And so he died the death you and I deserved, that if we paid, we’d be separated from God forever. But he paid the debt that we owed.
And then God raised him on the third day, conquering sin, death and the works of the enemy.
So that any who believe in him, any who call on the name of Jesus, will be saved. Confess with your mouth that Jesus is Lord and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead and you will be saved. And then God calls you his child and Ephesians tells us he looks at you as holy and blameless. You are holy believer now. We live holy.
The second thing you need to be holy is obedience. You are holy now. Live it out. Be holy. Reflect the holiness of God.
If you belong to God, holiness is not an option. It’s actually inevitable. Over time, through the working of the sanctification of the Spirit, which is how Peter begins this letter, we become more and more like Christ.
The truth is what you become. Or the truth is you become most like what you are most exposed to. So here’s the question. Are you spending time with the Father? You picking up his accent?
Or are you spending time in the worldly things? You spend your time around the miserable, they’ll welcome you. You just have to be miserable with them. You spend your time around gossips, they’ll welcome you. But you have to gossip as well.
You spend your time doom scrolling getting angry at the world. That’s exactly what you’ll be.
What are you most exposed to? What are you allowing to speak into your life? But if you spend time with the Father, you’ll be like Him. Spend time with His Word, you’ll talk like him, you’ll be holy, you’ll reflect his holiness. We don’t become holy by trying harder.
We become holy by drawing nearer to the Holy One. And then our lives begin to reflect His. You might be a common person, an uneducated person, but people can tell if you’ve spent time with Jesus. The third way we live a countercultural life in Christ is we have a life that conducts itself in reverence to God. A life that conducts itself in reverence to God.
Peter concludes this section by showing that a countercultural life is shaped by four gospel realities. Here they are our relationship with God, God’s impartial judgment, the brevity of our earthly life, and the immeasurable cost of our redemption. So let’s get into it. Verse 17. If you call on him as Father, other translations say, since you call on him as Father.
And here’s what we need to recognize. This is covenant language. He is our Father. We’ve been united with Him. He is also our judge.
But this reverence in the Christian life is never a detached fear like quaking, like God. Don’t smite me. I got out of line. Sorry. No, actually, this reverence brings us to faithful obedience to him.
Before him lived for him. The NLT clarifies this well, this reverent awe. 1 Peter 1:17 from the NLT. And remember that the Heavenly Father, to whom you pray has no favorites. He will judge or reward you according to what you do.
So you must live in reverent fear of him during your time here as temporary residence. So what does it mean then? That he judges impartially? God doesn’t have favorites. He doesn’t judge impartially.
This means that he doesn’t judge you on the surface level things. Your race, your social class, how much money you have or don’t have, what you look like, what you’re wearing. God doesn’t judge on the surface level things. He actually sees your heart. And he knows why you do what you do.
He knows why I do what I do. He judges us. And his judgment is true and final. He knows us. And so, in light of this, yes, he is our Father, who has redeemed us, who’s bought us.
We’ll talk about that in a moment. He’s also our judge, and we are to revere him and conduct ourselves with fear before Him. So conduct yourselves with fear. In verse 17. This is the word phobos, where we get the word phobia.
And so it could be this quaking, awaiting judgment. Oh, no, I messed up. But now it draws us towards obedience. And it says, conduct yourselves with fear, with reverence. God is holy, he is our judge, and he is our good Father.
Be reverent towards Him. Don’t use his name loosely. His name is greater than all other names. Conduct yourselves with fear in the time of your exile. Now he’s talking to believers.
Peter is talking to believers who are who have been dispersed due to persecution. So they’re going through a time. But believers, didn’t you know? This is not our home. We have a residency awaiting us in an eternal kingdom that’s our true home.
In the presence of God, forever and ever. As we read a little while ago. And so, in our time of exile, we’re living among foreigners in a strange land who believe strange things. They worship idols, they justify wrongdoing, they flip good and evil around, and they call what’s evil good and good evil. This is not our home.
If this is our home, yikes. God promises us you have an eternal residence waiting for you. Your home is with me, and it’s yet to come. We’re waiting on it. We’re eagerly waiting.
But while you’re here. Don’t waste your time. In the time of your exile, conduct yourselves with fear. And I love that Peter bookends this between two. Conducting yourselves with fear.
Why? Because of who God is. He’s your father and he is a judge. And he’s true, he’s not a liar. And because you’ve been ransomed, because you were bought.
Who God is and what he’s done, these are the reasons we are to live and conduct ourselves with reverence before him. You were ransomed? Meaning it’s a receipt for a ransom to redeem that we were purchased, that God saw us and said, I’m going to purchase you back to me. I’m going to bring you back home. And it’s going to cost.
And is this cost, little change? No, it’s a significant cost. You were ransomed. First Corinthians 6:20 reminds us of this. You were bought with a price.
So glorify God in your body. A few weeks ago, we looked at present your body and we focused in on that part of the verse. This time you were bought with a price. You’re not your own. You belong to someone.
You either belong to the world or belong to God. You belong to someone. If I belong to God, I want to honor him. He bought me. He saved me from wickedness, death and destruction.
I want to honor him with my life. Will I do it perfectly? No, I won’t. But he’s a good father. Let me revere him in my conduct.
And you were ransomed from what? The feudal ways? Inherited from your forefathers? The futile ways, meaning void, nothing. Dead, empty.
You’ve been bought out of a meaningless life.
God saw your life. He desired to save it. He counted it worth saving. But the purposes of our life lead us one way before Christ, to death, to our annihilation.
And he says, I’ve bought you from the futile ways. Your life matters. The things you do here matter. They could have eternal consequences in a good way, good consequences.
You’ve been rescued from that. You’ve been bought from that and from the ways inherited from your forefathers, from the traditions of your ancestors passed down. And don’t you love this comparison? Peter seems to be comparing. You have a.
You have heavenly Father and then you have your earthly fathers. And you’ve been rescued, you’ve been ransomed. You’ve been bought from the ways, those dead ways of your ancestors. You’ve been rescued from them. There is a real temptation even among Christians to think that certain familial sins are impossible.
To overcome. It’s a real temptation. Well, the reason I have bad language is. Well, that’s how my family talks. And I’ll always talk this way.
The reason I have anger issues is because, well, my father was an angry man and I don’t know how to control myself, so I’m angry. And the addictions we suffer, we’ve suffered them for all my generations.
Look, there’s a sanctifying process of God bringing us out of these things. But the true reality, the reality we get to accept is that we have been bought. We have been ransomed from these feudal ways, from the inherited feudal ways of our forefathers. You are ransomed. You are free from it.
Maybe sanctification needs to happen, become more like Christ. But you need to know this believer. You are free now. Someone might make a case. Well, Josh, I know, I know I’ve been set free, but I’m just not going to believe you.
I’m not going to believe the word that I’ve been set free from these things. I’m going to carry that burden. You might have an argument if it weren’t for this. Peter covers all his bases. What were you ransomed with?
Not with perishable things such as silver and gold. In verse 18, your life didn’t come so cheap. All the silver and gold and all the possessions the universe has to offer. God didn’t choose something so cheap to save your soul. What did he choose?
You were ransomed with the precious blood of Jesus Christ, verse 19. This is a great price, a costly price, an honoring thing, something esteemed friends, we’re not bought from the futility of worldly things that one day become dust with things such as silver and gold and perishable things. No, he bought you with the imperishable blood of Christ.
You’re free. If God paid this price, then our lives can’t be lived out casually. We can’t make casual what God has deemed costly. Can we be set free from the chains of sin and death? Set free and then go and be like, thanks God, I’m just going to keep living that way.
I’m not in the prison any longer, but I’m going to take up residence there. What sense does this make? Can we live our lives and maybe share our faith with others, but at the same time, in front of the same non believers? Live just like them? What does that say about our witness?
What does that say about our God?
Maybe we have a good show going on. We live with reverence and dignity and honor. Our Father. We don’t use his name in vain. We.
We revere him in the presence of people. But then when we’re alone, when you’re by yourself, you’re dishonoring to him.
Here’s the scary truth to that question, is yes, yes, you can live that way. The reason I’m bringing it up is just to say this one thing, that to God, it matters. It matters that you live the life you live. It matters. Live a life of reverence, because what you do matters to God.
He’s your Father. He’ll forgive you. He’s redeemed. You honor him. Second Corinthians 5:10 tells us this.
For we must all appear before the judgment seat of Christ so that each one may receive what is due. For what he has done in the body, whether good or evil, He’s a true judge. He knows what we do and why we do it.
And we’re here for a short time. God’s given us an opportunity here in our time of exile, to do something. When you plan a vacation for some kind of event, let’s say it’s Disneyland. Yippee. Do you tackle Goofy?
You find him, you’re like, there he is, that dog. You rush him. It’s like, no, you’re gonna get kicked out. You don’t squander the short time you have at Disney. You do it on the last day.
Don’t do that. Don’t do that. No, you’re like, we’re going here, we’re going here. We’re going here. We’re eating this place.
We’re doing reservations. You’re looking at your wallet, you’re regretting life, and you’re like, ah, okay. You make the most of the time because it’s costly.
We were bought at a cost, a high cost. We could squander it, or we could live in a reverence of God. He’s holy, he’s good. And we can take this opportunity, this gift of a time amongst the non believers, and we could show them the holiness and the awesomeness of our God. I serve a God who reconciles people.
I serve a God who changes the way I talk. I serve a God who’s given me a hope to look forward to that. Hey, you can’t touch. I can’t touch it. It’s guaranteed.
This is my God.
What do you treat casually that God treats as costly? Have you begun to live as if this is your home? Are you setting your mind on the heavenly things where he is?
Have you lost the weight of eternity in your decision making? Oh, I’ll Just do this and this. It doesn’t matter in the end. No, it matters. It does matter.
Carry yourself out. Reverence before God. It matters. A countercultural life is not a careless life, is a life lived in reverence, awe. Because we know who God our Father is, where we are living, and what it costs to bring us home.
So conduct yourselves in reverence to God today. God’s word has reminded us what a life looks like for those who belong to Jesus Christ. A countercultural life is marked by three realities. We set our hope fully on Christ, we reflect the holiness of our Heavenly Father, and we conduct ourselves with reverent awe because we have been redeemed at an infinite cost. This calling becomes even sweeter when you recognize Jesus is not asking you to do anything he himself did not do.
He laid the way. And he says, follow me. Spend time with Jesus and people will know. Pick up that heavenly accent. Now.
By his precious blood, we have been redeemed from our feudal way of life. Church, you were made for more. And the world offers you things that diminish. But God has bought us and has given something imperishable. You belong to another kingdom.
You belong to another king. Let’s live a countercultural life in Christ now. Let’s pray.
Father, I want to thank you for this time. Thank you for Wilson Eastgate, for Rocky Mount Eastgate, the work that you’re doing through your people. We pray that we would conduct ourselves in reverence, that we would serve with reverence, whether it be for Kids Fest coming up in a few weeks, or guest services, or preaching or singing in a band. Whatever we do, Lord, we just want to honor you. You’re a holy God.
And I pray that we would be holy. And maybe someone in here has heard this holy God, this God who’s so deserving of all reverence and wonders, can I have a relationship with this God? Is he too holy for me? And friend, if that’s you, he’s made a way for you through the blood of Jesus Christ. And if that’s you, feel free to repeat after me, Father.
God, I am a sinner and I’ve missed the mark of perfection. And I’ve been going my way my entire life. And I confess to you the sin. And I’m trusting in the one who you sent in, Jesus. Jesus, he lived the life I couldn’t live.
He died the death that I deserve. And I confess with my mouth that he is Lord. And I believe in my heart that God, you raised him from the dead, defeating sin, death and the works of Satan. And because I believe, because I trust. In the name of Jesus, you promise to make me your child.
And I am. I confess this. And I believe this. And if that is you, you are a child of God. And we children of God, believers in the room, we pray that we would sit in this reality that we are holy and blameless before our Father.
And I pray that we would pursue his holiness. That we would reflect his holiness. We would spend time with Him. That we would set our hope fully on Christ and His return. He will not let us down.
And that we would conduct ourselves with reverence to God, honoring him in our time here on earth. It’s a precious gift. I pray that we use it well. We pray all these things in the name of Jesus. Amen.
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Now let’s dig into this text. Built different. We had this wild intro that hopefully got the blood flowing a little bit, got the juices pumping, so that now we can get into this series. And we’re in the fourth part of it, so you can go back and see the others. They all sit kind of alone.
They all teach a different element of what it means to be a life that’s built different in Jesus. This has become kind of a popular phrase that has to do with being set apart or standing out. Some of you have probably heard the term, like cut from a different cloth or a different mold. That’s the idea of being built different. And in our series, what we believe and what we truly are faithfully pursuing is that those who have built their life on Jesus Christ should have a life that looks very different, that’s indeed built different.
Our theme verse for the whole series has been out of Romans, chapter 12. Paul writes. He says, I appeal to you, therefore, brothers, by the mercies of God, to present your bodies as a living sacrifice, holy and acceptable to God, which is your spiritual worship. Do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewal of your mind that by testing you may discern what is the will of God, what is good and acceptable and perfect. So over the last few weeks, we’ve talked about what it means to present your bodies and to be a living sacrifice and to be holy and acceptable in spiritual worship.
This week, probably the one I’ve been most looking forward to is this thing he says in verse two. He says, do not be conformed to this world. I want you to know something, that what surprises most people in your life is not that you claim at times to be a Christian. It’s that you claim it and then don’t live any different. That’s what really surprises people most, is that the church would say, hey, I go to church, but I also live just like everyone else.
The Bible really speaks against that. Paul says often. And here he says, do not be conformed. Now, I’ve noticed something, and I want to get into this together with you, because I’ve noticed something in myself that I’ve also noticed in others. We have just the easiest ability to drift.
Here’s what I’ve observed, both in my children and in adults and in myself. No one ever just accidentally becomes more like Jesus. Never seen it. It doesn’t just happen that you just wake up one day and you’re more holy, you’re more prayerful, you’re more loving, you’re more obedient. No.
In fact, when we’re left to ourselves, to our own devices, we tend to drift. We tend to conform, if you will. Because the world in fact is a mold or a pattern that our, our natural selves are most inclined to. We’re attracted to it. It’s a mold that we can just kind of sink into easily.
And so the world is this pattern that if we’re not careful, we’ll naturally fit into it. I’ve noticed you never have to teach anyone to be selfish. A child will come out and be selfish immediately. Mine, mine. It’s one of the first words they ever say.
I mean it’s dad and then it’s mine and it’s mine before moms sometimes. I’m sorry, moms. I don’t know what happens. Mom’s hard to say. I guess too many M’s.
Mama, mama, mine. But they’re great at being selfish. So are we. We crave comfort. We seek approval.
We chase success. We make life all about us. This is so easy. This is the easiest way to live. That’s why so many do.
Because the world’s mold is easy to sink into. Now here’s the problem that mold, it always over promises and it always under delivers. Makes great promises. This will fulfill you satisfaction. But it leaves you empty.
True freedom. But it leaves you feeling kind of enslaved to stuff. Oh, you’ll find significance here. And instead you just keep chasing the wind. A never ending target that moves yet.
God. I want you to hear something today. God has something infinitely better for you. Infinitely better. He has created you for himself, prepared you for a purpose.
And he desires you so much that he died for you. So much that he’s prepared eternity for you and has a destination in mind. Church. I pray today we would understand this, that we would be people who live differently because we are indeed different in Christ Jesus. So let’s dig in.
We’re going to be in first Peter. I need to turn there. There we go First Peter one together.
And here in this chapter, the Apostle Peter wrote to the Christians living in exile. There’s a bit of backdrop here. I just want to give you briefly. These are Christians who are living in what is modern day Turkey. In the Bible it’s called Asia Minor.
There’s several cities there. And it says these Christians are being dispersed, they’re being persecuted, they’re on the run. And it’s to these people that the Apostle Peter writes and says these very powerful and kind words that we’re going to dig into today, exhorting them to live differently because they belong to Jesus. And if we indeed belong to Christ Jesus, we can live differently. I pray you’ll see three clear marks in today’s text of a countercultural life that lives differently in Christ Jesus.
So let’s dig in a handful of verses. First, Peter 13:19 Therefore, preparing your minds for action and being sober minded, set your hope fully on the grace that will be brought to you at the revelation of Jesus Christ. As obedient children, do not be conformed to the passions of your former ignorance. But as he who called you is holy, you also be holy in your conduct. Since it’s written you shall be holy, for I am holy.
And if you call on him as Father who judges impartially according to each one’s deeds, conduct yourselves with fear throughout the time of your exile, knowing this that you were ransomed, Church, this is great news. You were ransomed from the futile ways inherited from your forefathers, not with perishable things such as silver and gold, but with the precious blood of Christ, like that of a lamb, without blemish or spot. This is God’s word. Amen. This is good news.
Today we we have three marks that Peter clearly puts these are the main three command verbs of the text. Here’s the first mark. A life that sets its hope on Christ. A life that sets its hope on Christ Jesus. So Peter concludes this introduction where he’s been saying, hey, great news, Church, great news.
I know you’re on the run. I know you’re being persecuted. I know things are hard. Here’s the wonderful news. We have a living hope in Christ Jesus.
And, and he’s coming again. And we have something to long for. Notice, the words of Peter here to begin are not and I love this. This is helpful. He doesn’t say, hey, y’ all need to do better.
No, he says, y’ all need to hope better. Put your hope in something more powerful than what you’re putting it in. That’s the therefore, verse 13. He says, therefore, I’ve told you this wonderful news about the resurrected Jesus and this inheritance we have in heaven. Therefore, put your hope in something that lasts.
We have a tendency to put our hope in all kinds of stuff. He is imploring us here, put it in something that lasts. Now he uses a couple of phrases that are super odd for us. He says, I want you to prepare your minds for action. Prepare your minds for action and be sober minded.
In fact, it’s even weirder. In the ancient text, this word prepare your minds is the King James puts It this way and gets it right. Gird up the loins of your mind. Most of you in the room know that you don’t have any loins up there. So you’re thinking, huh, this is this imagery that the Bible’s trying to give us of an ancient person running.
And what. Just picture what you picture when you picture Christ in his robes or a shepherd in that day. They have these longer robes and cloaks. That’s the style of the day. And the idea of girding up is to take that little fabric that’s in between and bring it up and cinch it up so that you can take off running.
Cause it’s hard to run in a robe. And so gird it up, cinch it up so that you’re ready to battle, to run, to take action. So here Peter says, do this operation in your mind, that is that you would be ready for whatever the day faces, that you would be ready for action because of the hope you have in Christ. And also sober minded. This is the idea of I’m going to be calm and collected.
I know where my hope is. So I’m not anxious, I’m ready. And this is the main verb of this first section. Set your hope. How did you hear it?
Don’t miss it, Church. I don’t want you to miss this. Verse 13. Set your hope fully on the grace that is in Christ Jesus. This word means completely, perfectly.
This is not Peter here saying, hey, mostly hope in Jesus. We make the terrible mistake, friends of thinking, hey, this Christian walk, this thing we call Christianity, it is a Sunday activity. You won’t get much out of that. In fact, over time I think you’ll go, why am I doing this Sunday thing? It has no impact on the rest of my life.
It’s because you’re trying to set your hope ever so partially on Jesus. That’s not what he says. He says, jesus, be all of your hope, rather than saying, Jesus is my hope. But I also hope that I get a raise at work. I also hope that my kids would be successful.
No, no, no. Set your hope fully on Christ Jesus and not just anything about him. Now I would argue, and I could take you to other places in scripture, we should set our hope on him in many ways. But here Peter says on the revelation that comes in Christ Jesus, so we as Christians have something unique then that we can long for and hope for, that the coming King is coming again and we don’t have to worry. We know that the revelation, as verse 13 says, this is the Greek word Apokalupsis.
It’s apocalypse. The manifestation, the appearance of Jesus is coming. And this should give you hope.
I don’t have to worry about tomorrow, necessarily. It doesn’t mean I don’t pay my bills and I don’t work hard and I don’t do the things I’m supposed to do. But my hope is not in those things. I don’t wake up tomorrow and go, boy, if everything doesn’t go right today, my life is ruined. My life is secure in Jesus.
This is why Peter begins this letter to these persecuted Christians by saying, you have an inheritance that no one can touch. It’s undefiled, it’s imperishable. So live differently. Church. We should be some of the least anxious people on the planet.
And I know that might be hard to hear, it might be almost offensive to you at the moment, but it’s perhaps because you haven’t exercised your mind for action in such a way that you set your hope on Jesus. Take a mental check right now and go, if I’m super stressed, if I’m super anxious, if I’m constantly worried, what’s under that? Perhaps it is that I’ve got all of my dreams and hopes and desires on something that is moving on a person. If this relationship will just go right, then I’ll be happy. Well, people are fickle, y’.
All. People are a hard thing to put your hope in. If I just get this job or if this goes right, it’s an ever moving object. The apostles all say, set your hope in Christ. There’s more to hope here, more in hoping in Christ Jesus, the writer of Hebrews.
It says, christ having been offered once to bear the sins of many, will appear a second time. Not to deal with sin, but to save those who eagerly are eagerly waiting for him. Are you eagerly waiting for the Savior, man? Does this eager expectation give you hope? I like what Paul writes to the Thessalonians.
He says, the Lord himself will descend from heaven with a cry of command, with the voice of an archangel, and with the sound of a trumpet of God. And the dead in Christ will rise first. Then we who are alive, who are left, will be caught up together with them in the clouds to meet the Lord in the air. And so we will always be with the Lord. Therefore encourage one another with these words.
Church. Are you encouraged? He’s coming back. I don’t know what the trumpet’s going to sound like. I tend to picture one from like Lord of the Rings, but you picture what you want.
I picture something like that maybe it’s something cooler, like one of the brass instruments from like Louis Armstrong or something. I don’t know. There’s coming a day when Christ is returning and we should be really pretty pumped up about that. In fact, did you know that the final words of your Bible, the final words of your scripture are these? He who testifies to these things says, surely I am coming soon.
Amen. Come, Lord Jesus. The grace of the Lord Jesus be with you all. Amen. I’m coming again.
So I’m going to finish my book. I’m going to finish my book with, I’m coming back. Almost like a To be continued. He’s coming again. This should give you incredible hope.
Now I want to paint a picture for you for just a moment about just the power of hope in your life. Picture two different high school students. And this is really easy for some of you to picture. I’ve got two now in high school, which is mind blowing. But I’ve observed something in my own life and certainly in kids lives where they put their hope, where they place their hope impacts everything.
So what you’ll hear, let’s picture two different high school students. One has college in mind, is in his senior year, and he knows, hey, the next step is my dream job. The next step. I’ve already been offered this scholarship and I’m working towards that and this job and this future. And I know what I want to be and I have a hope that comes next.
The other student says what I used to say a lot in high school, unfortunately, why does any of this matter? This is all very pointless, which is a dangerous way to think. It’s a dangerous way to think because it doesn’t take long before your thinking becomes action. And then your actions are careless, so then you don’t do the work. The person who has hope and a future will work harder.
It’s consistently true. But the person who goes, this has no meaning. So when we do this to our lives, this is a mess. What is this? Where am I going to put my hope?
When we have no hope, our work totally changes. What future do you think will finally make you happy? What are you waiting on before you can finally say, I have joy? Maybe it’s a promotion. Maybe some of you in the room are just waiting for marriage or children or a better health situation, better finances.
If I finally get here, I’ll have joy. That target, my friend, will move. It’ll move. That finish line will just keep getting bumped back until you’re at the end of days and going, man, I’m just not sure I was ever content in this life. Set your hope fully on Christ.
I’m not saying any of those things are sinful. I’m saying they’re pretty empty. That’s the first mark. A life that sets its hope on Christ. Here’s the second mark.
This one might start to start to unnerve you a little bit. That’s okay. It did me for sure. And that is a life that reflects the holiness of God. That sounds like such a massive task.
How am I to even remotely attain that? How am I to come anywhere near it? I want you to hear as you read these middle verses, verses of our text today, starting at verse 14. He begins by saying, obedient children. Now, some of you in the room are like, it’s been a long time, Jonathan, since I was a child.
But that’s not the reason he says this. Peter’s not saying, hey, I’m your elder. I’m older than all you. That’s not why he puts this in the text. He’s saying, you have a relationship with a heavenly God, a heavenly father that is son or daughter to.
To father. That is your relationship to him. So he’s beginning this section about being holy by saying, be obedient children. Verse 14. Not being conformed to the passions of your former ignorance.
In a way, he’s saying, look, Christ Jesus has paid for this. He has drawn you up out of this way that you used to live. So don’t go back. Don’t go putting the grave clothes back on. This new self that you have in Christ Jesus.
Why is it that you keep trying to dig up the old man and live like him? He says, no, do not be conformed to those over desires, those lusts, that former ignorance, this old self that you left behind, quit digging him up some in the room. I’m just going to say it plainly. Some of you need to once and for all finally bury him. The reason you’re digging him up is because he’s still there.
You never said at any point, hey, to live is Christ and to die is gain. Who I am in Christ Jesus is who I am and nothing else. So this way that I once was, the way I once thought, that is behind me. I am now a child of God. Verse 15.
He who called you then this reflects what Peter will talk about later. First Peter, chapter two, says, you’re a chosen race Church. Hear this. You’re a chosen race, a royal priesthood, a holy nation, a people for his own possession that you may proclaim the excellencies of him who called you out of darkness into his marvelous light. He’s called you out of darkness.
And this section concludes with a very famous phrase from scripture. This goes all the way back to the book of Leviticus. He says, be holy, for I am holy. Peter quotes what was quoted many times in Leviticus, but this holy response is in a response to a holy God. It’s about being like him, not doing something out of self effort.
This is really helpful to me. I want you to hear this today. The helpful thing about this text is he’s not saying, hey, in your own strength, in your own effort, you need to be more holy. No, he’s inviting us be holy like me. I’m not sure how that’s better.
Jonathan, help me. Here’s how it’s better. Because he’s saying, I’m showing you the way. I’m blazing a trail both in my word and as you walk with me in prayer. I’m modeling something to you and I’m inviting you, would you be like me?
It’s enough. Jesus says this. It’s enough for the servant to be like the master. In fact, here Peter is basically saying it is enough for the child to to be like the Father. He’s not saying, hey, you’ve got it in your own power and your own strength figure out how to be holy.
He’s saying, no, I want you to reflect my holiness. I want you to be kind of like in our atmosphere, in our world. Be like the moon that mirrors the sun. It has no light in and of itself, but it shines light because of the power of the sun. I want you to reflect my holiness.
This is true of the disciples of the apostles. The more time they spent with Jesus, the more obvious it became. Look at Acts, chapter 4. The Pharisees and scribes. They saw Peter and John.
They said that when they saw their boldness and perceived that they were uneducated common men, they were astonished and they recognized that they had been with Jesus. This is why one of my favorite things to say to guys that I’m discipling that might feel like they’re more blue collar or whatever. I like to kind of remind them, hey, but those who spend time with Jesus start looking a lot different. Those who walk with Christ Jesus, it doesn’t matter your background. Oh, I don’t really have much of an education.
I’m not really all that people feel this way about themselves. I’m not that smart. I’m not that eloquent. Even Moses said stuff like that. I Just don’t.
I don’t speak so good God. And to that very person, the Bible, I think again and again says, no, but when you spend time with me, I’ll change you. I’ll make you more than you can imagine. These Pharisees said, boy, these guys are bold, they’re eloquent, they’re moving people and they’re uneducated. Who are these guys?
Guys that have been hanging out with Jesus. The power is in the name of Christ. So then this text, be holy, for I am holy. Be holy like I am holy. It’s about being a mirror.
It’s about being a good mirror. And I think it’s such a great illustration already in itself. Peter says, like children to their parents, parents in the room. Have you observed that you’ve created a bunch of little mirrors? You observe this, yet some of you have observed it in the most scary kind of ways.
Things like the language you use. All of a sudden they say stuff, you’re like, hold up, you don’t say that. But mommy, you say it. Maybe I should stop saying it. I mean, I saw on a reel the other day, this person was driving through the drive through and said they were ordering a cup of coffee.
And the little girl in the back seat in her little car seat said, mommy, can I have a cookie? And the mommy said, we got cookies at home. And the little girl wrestlers back, yeah, we have coffee at home too, Mommy.
So she looks and says, can I get a cookie too?
Have these little mirrors, what you say? I’ve noticed something especially, I mean moms and dads both, but especially dads. You come in the room with like a lot of angst and hostility and anger. You know what you’ll see in your children? Angst and hostility and anger.
They just mirror it. They’re terrible at being thermostats, they’re great at being thermometers. They’ll tell you, oh, it’s hot in here, but only you parents, only you get to set the temperature. Say, I’m going to have a house of peace. I’m going to have a house of calm.
I’m not going to use language that I don’t want them to say. Primarily because it doesn’t glorify God. If I don’t want to hear it from them, it’s probably not very honorable. That was a parenting lesson, has nothing to do with the sermon. Alright, but it is the illustration that Peter uses.
You want to know what it looks like to be holy? Be like God, reflect his glory. Well, how do I Do that, Jonathan. You got to spend a lot more time than you probably are with him. Why do your children begin to start acting and looking and behaving like you?
Because they watch you. They see you daily. They hear your voice. They know your heart. You want to know how to be holy like God?
Got to spend time with him, hear his voice, know his heart. Does that help? Boy, if we could get this one thing today that Christ has through the power of the Holy Spirit, here, through the Apostle Peter, he’s calling us, be holy like me, which means spend enough time with me that you would begin to know my ways. That I would speak like God because I hear God’s voice in my head. That the Bible would begin to come to life for me.
Because in the middle of a situation, the psalms would come to my mind. That in the middle of a situation, I would hear First Corinthians, chapter five. Boom. But I’ve got to spend time with him to hear his voice. Be holy, for I am holy, which means I got to be with you.
Now, some of you today, you need to hear this for perhaps the first time, or at least clearly for the first time. That here the Bible says you’ve been called from darkness into light, that something has changed. And the only way that you’re going to be holy as God is holy, is to first say, I am not holy apart from God. I need Christ Jesus to be made new, to be holy. So for someone today, it’s time to say obediently.
Obediently. Yes. Christ Jesus, you died for me on the cross. Thank you. These people just modeled that for you.
Baptism is a clear picture of a death, of a burial, and of a resurrection. They’ve modeled what Christ Jesus has done, but also what they have said yes to. For someone today, you need to hear for the first time, the gospel is for you. And it’s time to say, yes, Lord, I am yours. And then once you belong to God, once you begin to walk with him, once you begin to hear his voice, I want you to hear something.
Holiness no longer becomes optional. It becomes inevitable. This should be good news to you. The more time you spend with the Lord Jesus, holiness becomes inevitable. So then the real question is not, am I trying hard enough?
Am I being holy enough? It’s rather, what am I consistently exposing myself to? Friends, here’s the thing. You’re great mirrors already. I don’t have to teach you how to do this.
You do it already. You literally came out into this world this way, ready to reflect and mirror things and whatever you’re most putting into your eyes, into your ears, into your mind, whatever you’re exposing yourself most to, that you are most becoming. Scary, right? They say you are what you eat. It’s bigger than that.
You are what you watch, hear, and think about all the time. You are that. Honestly, you need to maybe make that confession today. Because the truth is, you will become most like what you are most exposed to. So the offer is this.
Expose more. Way more exposure to the Lord God, to this wonderful gospel. Spend time with the Father. Here’s the third and final mark.
A life that conducts itself in reverence to God. I know we don’t use that term a whole lot, but I wanted to stick to the biblical idea here, this idea of reverence to God. Here. In this text, it says, conduct yourselves with fear, which I’m going to dig into. And he begins this section by saying in verse 17, if you call on him as Father.
This isn’t so much about uncertainty. It’s not that Peter is saying, hey, I don’t know if you guys will or not. I think it’s actually more like a challenge. I think that’s the intent here. Men in the room would certainly understand this.
There might be a female version of it. I couldn’t think of one. I’ll give you a male version of it. There’s times where men will get together and say, hey, either pick that bug up or you’re not a man. You know, that’s the kind of junk we do to each other.
Hey, either jump off that cliff from 60ft up or you’re just not a man. That’s the mess we grew up with. Almost every man in the room remembers that. Certainly in your teenage years, if you’re still doing that to one another in your 40s and 50s, y’ all need to cool off. Like, that’s ridiculous.
Somebody’s gonna get hurt. But pick that bug up and eat it, or you’re not a man. Like, that’s the kind of stuff we grew up with. That, I think, is what Peter is saying here. It’s not that we aren’t believers.
It’s not that he’s saying, hey, y’ all aren’t Christians. He’s saying, if y’ all really call him Father, if you’re really one of his, I want you to remember you serve an impartial judge in a time that is short. Don’t miss these final words in verse 17 through 19. I love what the NLT writes. In fact, as it translates verse 17, it says, Remember that the heavenly Father to whom you pray has no favorites.
He will judge or reward you according to what you do. So you must live in reverent fear of him during the time your time here as temporary residence. That’s actually a really good translation because it has said here clearly. He judges impartially. This is really great news, Church.
He doesn’t look at me any different than he looks at you. I don’t know if you have that impression that somehow people who get to take stages and represent God as pastors are somehow his favorite. That’s not the case. He loves each and every one of us exactly the same. He judges us impartially.
This word literally means without respect to persons or personal favoritism. He doesn’t have favorites. He loves you. He loves you and you and you and me. And what he is interested in is who will walk with him obediently, who will make it a serious effort to say, I want to be like you and walk with you in this life.
And if that wasn’t enough, he finishes by saying, and the time is short. You might have missed it. Verse 17 in this conduct yourselves with fear in this time of your exile. This is going to help someone this morning. Here’s some great news to you.
This earth, this place is not your forever home. Some of you probably bought homes recently and after living there for a little while went, man, I really thought this was my forever home. But no longer. I’m here. Boy, there’s cracks everywhere.
This place is a hot mess. I gotta move. I have greater news for you, friends. This broken world is not your forever home.
We were made for more. The kingdom of heaven is greater. We were made for it. We are Kingdom citizens. The reason you shouldn’t look like you belong to the world is because straight up, you don’t.
You were bought with a price. You belong to the Savior, the King of the Universe, and you belong with Him. So the reason you shouldn’t fit in is because you don’t fit in. In fact, 18 and 19 finish well by saying, the reason for this is you’ve been ransomed. This word has to do with liberating, with payment.
You’re so valuable to God that He bought you. He didn’t just come and say, hey, y’ all need to do better and correct us. Boy, that’d be a hard Christianity, wouldn’t it? If what Jesus came and did and said, hey, y’ all need to do better. That’s not what he did.
Now, he certainly taught on obedience and taught us many great things, but primarily he came because he said, it will never be enough. Someone must pay, and I’ll do it. He ransomed us. To which Paul then refers to this in First Corinthians. He says, you were bought with a price, so glorify God in your body.
You have now left behind the futile ways inherited from your forefathers. Some of you. I’ve heard this so many times in counseling in my office. And among certain people, they will say, hey, I’ve got anger problems. My dad had anger problems.
My granddad had anger problems. I struggle with addiction. My whole family struggles with addiction. I was hurt as a child. I was abused.
I was this. And I’m having trouble with it. Now, look, I have compassion for that. It’s serious. But I want you to hear the words of the gospel today.
He says in these short verses, you have a new father, and you’ve been ransomed from the ways of your forefathers. So if you’ve made it an excuse, I will never stop being angry. I will never stop having struggles with this addiction. I’ll never stop. You fill in the blank.
Because it’s my whole family’s legacy. No, it isn’t. Do you know why? You’re part of a new family.
You’re part of a new family. And the king of the universe does not struggle in these ways. And you are his son. You are his daughter. This is why Peter puts this here.
If you call on him as father, then you have been ransomed from the habits and hurts and hangups of your family tree. Now, I’m not saying they won’t still tempt you and hurt you, but you are not that anymore. And the reason for that is where he concludes. Because you’ve been bought out. Not by perishable things like silver and gold.
This stuff will one day become dust. You weren’t bought with that. You were bought with the precious blood of the Son of God. That’s how much God loves you and has called you out for a purpose. So live a life then, of reverence, because what you do matters.
I want to close with this verse. It says, in second Corinthians 5, we must all appear before the judgment seat of Christ, so that each one may receive what is due for what he has done in the body, whether good or evil. We will one day give an account for everything we have done, good and bad. And then for the church, for the Christian. I think this is why the scene is wiping the tears away.
I think there will be some things. We get there and go, man, that was not What I intended there. But Christ will wipe away every tear. If you have just a short amount of time somewhere, you’re going to make the most of it. And this is the nature of how Peter ends his text here.
He says, I want you to call him as Father who judges impartially. He doesn’t have any favorites. He loves you. And you need to do this with reverent fear in the time of your exile. What does he mean there?
He means, this isn’t home. You’re only here for a short time. Here’s something I just want to encourage you with. If you have the opportunity to go somewhere, maybe on an amazing trip, maybe somewhere you’ve been longing to go, you know, you could fill it in right now. Personally, I would really love to see Jerusalem.
Obviously, you know, it’s in my work, but I so desperately want to see the Garden of Gethsemane and the Mount of Olives, and I want to see it. And here’s what I know. If I ever get the opportunity to go to Jerusalem, I’m going to have a plan. I’m going to make sure I don’t miss anything. And all the goofy stuff that doesn’t matter.
You’re not going to find me in souvenir shops. You’re not going to find me trying to get somewhere that has nothing to do with the holy walk of Christ. No, I want to see the place he walked. I want to see Golgotha. I want to see that.
And so every other thing you hear, this church, every other thing will not be prioritized. When I go.
If you go to an event or a show or a city or you get to go on vacation, this is how you’ll live. If you’ve been longing for it and hoping for it, Peter now says, this is the way you should treat your time on this planet. Your time of exile, he calls it. Start prioritizing the important stuff, because time is limited. So make the most of it.
You’ve been bought with a price. Make the most of it. Every interaction and every conversation could be your last. Well, this is not a very encouraging message, Jonathan. I was supposed to walk out of here a little more pumped up.
It could be encouraging because it could elevate every single conversation. Now, everything matters now. When I go to work tomorrow and I interact with my co workers, some of which I don’t really care for, Jonathan, now, they start to matter.
Now, Joe Schmoe, who comes in and always rubs me the wrong way and makes my life more miserable, now I’m looking at him going, does he know? Because I need him to know changes everything. If my time of exile. I don’t know how long I’m going to be here, but I know this. I’m going to prioritize my time today matters.
I’m going to use my time more wisely. I pray this would be the case for his church, that we would stop treating casually what God treats so costly.
A countercultural life is never a careless life. It’s lived in awe because we know the Father. We know where we’re living is temporary and we know what it cost him to bring us home. So live different. A countercultural life.
Let’s pray now together. CHURCH Heavenly Father, we thank you because you are good first and foremost. You are good and loving and merciful and gracious. This idea of living a cultural, a countercultural life, of being different in this world, it’s all based on the fact that first, Lord Jesus, you saved us and you set us free.
We can’t do any of this in our own strength and power. It comes by the power of the Holy Spirit, which you freely give. At the point we come to faith in Jesus. Lord, thank you for who you are. And I want to give the opportunity to someone this morning that needs to say yes to the gospel for the first time that God, you have clearly offered yourself to them as a free gift.
This verse plainly puts it that the precious blood of Jesus has been given to ransom us from darkness to light. Dear friend, if that’s you today, there’s no reason to wait even another moment. Today is your opportunity to say yes, Lord Jesus, I’m ready. I believe, if that’s you, my friend, would you pray a simple prayer of confession with me? Say with me this, Jesus, I believe today that you died on the cross for my sins.
And God, I believe that you raised Christ Jesus from the dead. Jesus, I’m asking now, would you satisfy my soul, help me to set my hope on you and then live my life according to your calling and not my own ways that are a constantly moving finish line. Lord Jesus, thank you for saving me. Dear friend, if you prayed that prayer with me. Welcome to the family of God.
We’re so blessed to be a part of this with you. We’re asking the Lord the same thing with you, Lord, satisfy our souls, every longing. Help us to live for you. Help us to have a life that’s serious about living for Jesus, that sees every conversation as an opportunity, every interaction as a possibility. Because the time is short, our exile is unknown.
Lord, be with us. Then give us courage. Give us boldness like the the Pharisees said of Peter and John. Help people to see our boldness because we’ve spent time with Jesus. We love you.
We pray all of these things in Jesus name, Amen.
Have you ever noticed how easy it is to drift? No one accidentally becomes more like Jesus. We don't wake up one day more holy, more prayerful, more loving, or more obedient without intentional pursuit. Left to ourselves, we drift. We conform. That word pictures a mold or pattern that quietly shapes whatever is pressed into it. The world has a pattern, and if we're not careful, we'll naturally fit right into it.
In 1 Peter chapter 1, the apostle Peter wrote to Christians living as exiles throughout Asia Minor, exhorting them to live differently in this world because they belonged to God through Jesus Christ.
